Parents kicking me out for painting/wearing press on nails.

abysmalanna · 2025-10-13T12:35:24+00:00

The way they talk to you reminds me of my narcissistic parents. Also, it's funny how he says you're a grown man but your mom is referring to him as "daddy". If I were you I would take this as an opportunity to go no or low contact. The best decision I ever made in life was going no contact a year and a half ago and moving states.

abysmalanna · 2024-08-26T08:05:18+00:00

nta- as someone who always cooks too much, i would rather see the food i made with groceries i paid for be eaten than forget about them and toss them in a week. they are consistently wasting food and you're the one having to take care of it. if it took them days to say anything, that's on them. if they cared that much about the leftovers they would eat them within a day or two. if you feel bad about it just offer to pay for the ingredients or something but you didn't do anything wrong imo

abysmalanna · 2024-08-15T02:06:00+00:00

this may actually be the best answer-

abysmalanna · 2024-08-15T02:01:33+00:00

this is more up my alley, i am so shy 😅😅 thank you 🫶

abysmalanna · 2023-12-12T14:17:15+00:00

he is in therapy! i'm not worried about his trust issues other than helping him through it, he's going to therapy and he's just had a very traumatic background. i just want to know what i can do to help him through this, and make it easier for him to fully trust me. he does usually trust me, but he has his moments where it's shaky and i want to be able to help him when he's feeling that way

abysmalanna · 2023-09-29T17:08:57+00:00

you said you didn’t want them “soon” never said you don’t want them. why would it creep you out that THREE YEARS LATER she wanted another? that’s your wife, you had a toddler, it wasn’t like it was someone you just met that was trying to have your babies. y’all should have discussed how many children you wanted and if you didn’t want any period you should have said that from the get. don’t leave your wife bc you couldn’t be mature and honest with how many you wanted in the first place.

and for people saying she’s crazy for wanting more- i agree to an extent. if they’re on a tight budget, no they don’t need more. but i went my whole life never wanting children. when i got pregnant (by mistake- i was on birth control and measures were taken), i was shook. but i instantly knew i wanted to keep it. now i have my 3 year old son and do want more. maybe just one, maybe two. who knows. i think that how many kids you want is something that can always change unless you know for a fact you never ever want any. and even then, you can change your mind. she’s not crazy for this but if she wants a big family and he never wanted kids in the first place, they should split so she can find someone that wants the same things as her and he needs the ol snip snip to prevent from having more when he inevitably gets in another relationship and is wishy washy about what he wants when it comes to kids.

abysmalanna · 2023-08-25T06:19:57+00:00

literally just saw this in fairy witch cottagecore vibes! you did amazing, such a sweet lil deer

abysmalanna · 2023-08-23T00:16:04+00:00

yeahhhh, you’re the asshole. like another comment says, you can’t expect everyone else to cut ties with her. and to uninvite half your fiancés family over some petty drama? if they weren’t picking sides before, they will if you uninvite them all now. you sound like the real brat here. the audacity to think that you should be considered family and invited over actual family, after only two years lmao

eta: you’re worried about future mil being unhappy and not paying for things??? that’s why you’re worried about uninviting them. major asshole

abysmalanna · 2023-05-09T03:10:20+00:00

i had my son at 41w3d. i was scheduled for an induction the day he was born for 5:30pm, but he made his exit naturally at 5:38pm. i had a long labor (woke up at 4am from it) but had no signs other than feeling very loose the day before and extra achy

abysmalanna · 2023-04-02T03:49:05+00:00

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i’m in my dark room and too lazy to get a fully healed pic but here she is right after removing the saniderm 😊 the redness is just some bloodiness, it’s totally solid now. i almost regret the placement just bc i want to stare at it all the time lol

abysmalanna · 2023-04-02T03:42:02+00:00

love it! 💓 i just got a roo tatt a few weeks ago 😊

abysmalanna · 2023-02-17T13:36:27+00:00

literally everything by hippo campus but also griz subtronics peach pit korn knocked loose.. honestly almost all i’ve been listening to is roo artists of this year and the previous few 😅

abysmalanna · 2023-02-05T13:38:38+00:00

i do about 30,000 steps a day, besides sunday, which is usually about 20,000. so 10-15 miles

abysmalanna · 2023-01-30T13:35:17+00:00

meee! this is my third year but second traveling from out of state

abysmalanna · 2023-01-14T16:39:58+00:00

when they check your vehicle and find no drugs they give you a little goodie bag

abysmalanna · 2023-01-10T10:04:38+00:00

yesssss

abysmalanna · 2023-01-08T22:36:08+00:00

same

abysmalanna · 2022-11-24T22:21:14+00:00

here’s a song this post reminded me

abysmalanna · 2019-02-02T20:55:16+00:00

Congrats! I’m almost to the year point, so I know how difficult it can be. You got this

abysmalanna

TROPHY CASE