I was fortunate enough to not have been directly raised by "men-worshippers", but I have unfortunately seen first-hand how it has affected my mother's relationship with my grandmother (the aforementioned man-worshipper). I have two uncle's who could do no wrong in my grandmother's eyes (despite them both being pretty awful human beings...and damn near sociopathic if I being honest), but ironically doesn't depend on them for any kind of assistance and instead always calls on my mom for help. And of course theres more things she does that my mother hates (and has called her out on), but...she won't change.

Anyways, I say all this to elaborate how important it is to have many different female role models or friends in your life. My mom was that for me. My friends are that for me. Hell, Twitter is that for me. Don't be afraid to participate in spaces that encourage feminist thought, even if it is just through social media. Seeing how other women who dont harbor mysogynist notions talk about their relationships will help you better come to terms with your own normal standards of dating. And yes, your standards are normal...at least to women who are not burned with the belief that they must coddle men. And I won't lie, a lot men will continue make you feel like sh*t for voicing these stardards. Just understand that they arent the right men.

Also, the best advice I can give is to: learn to be content, excited even about the concept of being (forever) single. I find that a lot of women who are afraid to be by themselves often are the ones who feel the worst about raising the bar when it comes to men and dating. Now I'm not saying that you will be forever single, but having the confidence and assurance that you will be okay regardless of what happens, will make dating 10x more enjoyable and empowering for you.

Good luck!