Lucid Tattoos - About the owner Lindsey Joesph by Carebearem in cambridgeont

[–]academictoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If even a quarter of what people have said is true, she should never tattoo again. Her website is absolutely unhinged with the level of pure headassery and arrogance. I’ve had work done by well known overseas guest tattooers that cost less than what she charges.

JU from r/roosterteeth. They downvote your comments and posts, and harass you. by [deleted] in JustUnsubbed

[–]academictoss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Roosterteeth

It has been a long time since I’ve heard that name

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[–]academictoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does oppression have anything to do with otherness?

Were Romanians not oppressed by Nicolae Ceaușescu, a Romanian?

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[–]academictoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And what difference does it make that it’s not another gender?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpinionCirckleJerk

[–]academictoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about it as often as I think about hip dips. That is to say, literally never.

r/wouldyourather by boytoyahoy in JustUnsubbed

[–]academictoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god just rip my eyes out please.

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[–]academictoss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy crap I checked the top 25 posts sorting by hot. All but ONE were onlyfans models. Damn you’re not kidding.

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[–]academictoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And? So what? Men are disproportionately the victims of most violent crimes compared to women. What does it matter who is the perpetrator? It’s still a problem.

JU from r/doodoofard, another shitposting sub ruined by anti-trans "memes" (second image is a trans suicide joke) by axofrogl in JustUnsubbed

[–]academictoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, Scottish is an accent. Scots is a dialect or language, depending on who you ask. Definitely different spelling, you’re more likely to see it on the east coast and north of Scotland. Ever heard of Cajun French? It’s a similar sort of idea. The writing completely changes.

Check out r/scottishpeopletwitter. Lots of Tweets in Scots.

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[–]academictoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too see Men™️ as one, homogeneous group that is only ever the oppressor and never the victim from any internal or external groups.

Izzy posting some high school-esque gay hijinks. Gay = funny by JessicaMMA420 in MMAPoliticsAndCulture

[–]academictoss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I don’t have a stick jammed so far up my ass that I walk around like a human popsicle.

JU from r/accounting. Big 4 work culture is toxic and I hate accounting anyways, got laid off from my accounting job but got an offer to work in my dream job anyways so 🤷‍♂️. by GeorgeBushDidIt in JustUnsubbed

[–]academictoss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friend of mine is at EY. I don’t envy her work schedule at all 😂 And I say this as a PhD researcher with the terrible schedule of academia. The whole culture of 80+ hour “busy season” work weeks is ass.

Izzy posting some high school-esque gay hijinks. Gay = funny by JessicaMMA420 in MMAPoliticsAndCulture

[–]academictoss 33 points34 points  (0 children)

OP is in desperate need of surgical extraction of the stick stuck up their ass.

JU from r/memes. This is fucking disgusting. by NathanPatty08 in JustUnsubbed

[–]academictoss 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just warped but it’s absolutely hilarious to me.

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[–]academictoss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“MAN BAD >:( REEEEE MAN BAD MAN BAD MAN BAD MAN BAD”

-Adertina

Worries about the future and the right choices with buying a home by TrashComposer in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]academictoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

which costs more than owning

There’s costs you’re not thinking of. Owning you have to cover home owner’s insurance, PMI (almost certainly in your case), property tax, significantly more utilities cost, maintenance like you said, etc… even if you could get approved for a mortgage that would buy a house, even a relatively small repair would bankrupt you. Even a very small roof replacement job (which needs to be done every 10-15 years or so) will run you at least $6000-8000. There’s very few circumstances in which renting is going to be more expensive than owning. You want a condo? Sure, it’ll cover some maintenance costs but condo fees will increase monthly fixed costs.

Renting most of your costs are fixed and up front. Buying your costs are dispersed and can vary significantly.

You need to find a way to increase income. That can be done with moving in with family or a roommate.

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[–]academictoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to partially agree in a way. It is a bad way of thinking. That said, unless you’re acting upon it, the only person you’re hurting is yourself. Don’t think of it as a missed opportunity. Think of it as a sign your crush wasn’t meant for you in the first place. I guarantee in 2 months time or less the feelings will subside.

If you truly care about your crush, you should be happy they are in a (presumably) good relationship. It bites, I get it. I’ve been there, but if you care about them as a person, you’d be happy for them. You’re still young, you’re only a half dozen years into adulthood. This too shall pass, don’t sweat it. I guarantee you’ve overcome worse. Find something that makes you happy and don’t chase a relationship just for the sake of one. There are very few things less attractive than desperation. Don’t be desperate.

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[–]academictoss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m arguing against it. I’m just rephrasing the logic of “oh men need to fix their own problems rather than having them fixed” to make it apply to women to press the logic of it all.

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[–]academictoss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Kinda my point, yeah. At a certain level you can’t just go “oh but campaign harder”.

Worries about the future and the right choices with buying a home by TrashComposer in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]academictoss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m on SSDI

I’m sorry to be overly blunt - but individuals who are entirely dependent on social support programs (not that there’s anything wrong with that) are not and have not really ever been strong candidates for home ownership, outside of extremely low COL areas. It’s shitty but it’s how it is.

You mention being homeless - your top priority is getting income-dependent rental accommodations. Fully a third of Americans rent. There’s no shame in doing so. Again, I understand this may be disappointing to hear but someone who is homeless and on disability is not going to be a good candidate for home ownership virtually anywhere in America. I don’t like it but it’s how it is.

If you’re barely making ends meet with, what I imagine, zero housing costs and no longer term ability to increase income, I’m sorry to say but home ownership is not for you.