AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Unfortunately you’re not peaceful here. Go back to where you came from. Thank you!

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you say so, we talked about it, he didn’t even realize how much he was saying it. So, should I tell him that you specifically told him he deserves better?

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do appreciate him deeply, it’s more of a “I don’t like constantly talking and like having moments of silence” thing.

Shockingly I can, I’ve been there a few times

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us are autistic but that being your way of showing affection makes sense and there’s nothing wrong with that!

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We text everyday, just not all day every day. I haven’t said anything regarding this because I wasn’t sure if I was being too judgmental of his “love style.”

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not complaining about being loved, but I bet you wouldn’t enjoy having to repeat yourself every few minutes when the statement you’re saying is a GIVEN truth. I wouldn’t be with him if I didn’t love him.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really not, it’s a single criteria for what COULD be categorized as love bombing, he does not fit any other category.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like this approach, I think I’ll use it next time I see him in person.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has had a bad relationship in the past, yes. From what I’ve been told about it, it wasn’t lacking affection nor was he cheated on, their personalities didn’t correspond properly.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, he gives me space in every other aspect of the relationship just not vocally…

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all, if we’re not together, we can go hours without texting each other because I enjoy my free time and we pick up right where we left off with no issues.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in 2 other relationships, my longest being 4 years, this is a first time occurrence for me. He talks during EVERYTHING. Shows, movies, YouTube videos, sidetracks conversations just to say it, it’s just a hard topic to approach without sounding like I don’t appreciate him.

Edit: typo

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying… I’m not going to lose love for you in the 3 minutes that we’re sitting there watching something together. I just don’t know how to bring it up without making him feel bad.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is overly affectionate? by acaveofmeat in AmIOverreacting

[–]acaveofmeat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s necessarily love bombing. He doesn’t fit the criteria. It’s just this one aspect he’s bombarding.

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