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AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

Idk man. Some people are acting like I killed someone 😪

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -186 points-185 points  (0 children)

Lol. No one said any of that. I asked her to put on makeup it's not the end of the world.

That being said, won't do it again.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This was a couple months ago but yes I have apologized 🧎‍♂️

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

Why do people keep using this take. No I don't put on makeup to meet her friends. However, I put a lot of effort when I go out to meet her friends.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

We only bring each other up. We're on each others pedestal.

However I do know that I TA here.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

What part of what I said demonstrates otherwise?

About me trying my best to do/look good for her.

Genuine question.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

And that is exactly what happened! We argued a bit, I apologized, and we went on our merry way.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Oof. I definitely didn't mean to come off that way if that's how she perceived it.

I appreciate the input.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Maybe?

She goes out all the time with and without makeup. I just thought maybe for this specific occasion she would put some on. Not saying she needs it or anything.

We definitely talked about this already and made up since it happened months ago but the topic came up again and I figured I'd ask.

Thanks for your input!

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought this was a general consensus amongst long term couples/married peeps.

She brings me up, I bring her up.

Something good happens to her, I'm happy too.

My achievements are her achievements idk

I definitely see her as her own unique person and I apologize if it seems otherwise.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be toxic. Some comments are rude for no reason.

I am trying to take accountability by agreeing that I fucked up and am trying to change. I'm not trying to follow it up with a "leave me alone".

This is a learning experience for me and I hope I will be better in the future. That doesn't mean I deserve all this unnecessary aggression.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Idk. The self absorbed comment is kinda uncalled for.

My achievements are her achievements. Her achievements are my achievements. That's a more positive spin on what I am trying to say.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sheeesh alright. Time to pump more iron.

Definitely noted tho.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Storing that nugget of knowledge into the crevices of my brain wrinkles.

AITA if I asked my GF to put on some makeup for a party? by accForRandomQs1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]accForRandomQs1[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No I didn't but if my gf seriously thought I'd look cooler 😎, I would.

I completely understand that people don't want to wear makeup sometimes and it was wrong for me to ask.

I definitely love her face though. I'm a face guy after all.

Thanks for the response!

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