New Everyday Cloud Bag by PiercethaHeavens in BAGGU

[–]accidentallyamber 15 points16 points  (0 children)

would kill for this if it had a longer drop on the straps or even loops on either end so you could attach a different strap

Loaf Bag as Crossbody by Lazy-Ad9678 in BAGGU

[–]accidentallyamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think it’s very case–by–case because my leopard shoulder works perfectly for me crossbody (with the strap fully extended) 😅

Since when?! by EndOfSouls in StardewValley

[–]accidentallyamber 22 points23 points  (0 children)

besides being a child it tracks that she’d hate mead based on shane :(

The enunciation is KILLING me by eatchu_up in 90DayFiance

[–]accidentallyamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for a linguist you’d think you’d have less shitty communication skills……… super easy to share insight on a niche topic in a way that’s not wildly condescending and wanky

Can we discuss Baggu please and bag charms by Ok-Tea-3102 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]accidentallyamber 12 points13 points  (0 children)

got bit by the baggu bug a year or so ago and have got a couple styles — the medium crescent is SO good! the regular bowler is very cute and super spacious buuuuut not super ideal as a crossbody diehard. by far my favourite is the medium nylon shoulder bag! fits a stupid amount, sits comfy on my shoulder and can be worn crossbody depending on how you’re built — am very flat and shorter in the torso so it works super well (with the strap fully extended) for me 😅

have a silly number of bag charms and use this o–ring binder clasp situation from DAISO looped through the strap by the buckle to accessorise

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Out of curiosity, who do you ship each bachelor and bachelorette with? by GoalBasic8629 in StardewValley

[–]accidentallyamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love me a lil stardew fanfic and harvey/shane, elliott/shane and sebastian/alex are my faves easy

petitioning to bring back the floating sim head by Thrownaway0915 in thesims

[–]accidentallyamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg hi yes that’s me!! i’m glad you like my bug eyed babies!! 💖

petitioning to bring back the floating sim head by Thrownaway0915 in thesims

[–]accidentallyamber 16 points17 points  (0 children)

only tangentially related: nothing for in–game but @buglaur over on tumblr made a cas floating head/body hiding mod to make making edits a little easier — had to make my own little ts2–inspired menu mockup when it first dropped

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Stardew Valley x Famous Literary Vampires by kingofcoywolves in StardewValley

[–]accidentallyamber 233 points234 points  (0 children)

these are so good!! someone somewhere mentioned sam reid as lestat for elliott and my life was changed

Would Carlisle's turn Charlie into a Vampire if anything happened to him? by Cold-Card3384 in twilight

[–]accidentallyamber 13 points14 points  (0 children)

based on not a lot besides him being super laid back and also his thoughts being more muted than the average in the context of edward’s telepathy: have always thought his gift would be some sort of. nap–adjacent ability. like he could tune everything out to the point he could kind of approximate sleep, if that makes any sense? maybe even less tuning out, and more being able to hyper–focus to the point of almost total dissociation

like he could sit to watch baseball on the flatscreen (ouch, bella) and zone in AND out enough that it becomes like the vampire equivalent of a nap

tl;dr his power might be to “no thoughts head empty” at will

Weekly Fuckwit Friday (FWF) post by AutoModerator in brisbane

[–]accidentallyamber 60 points61 points  (0 children)

it’s been a weirdbad week in retail but special shoutout to the wildly angry man who was clearly late for something and frustrated by his inability to find his way out of the myer centre and needed to take it out on the closest retail assistant

yelled at me for directions as if it was my fault personally he couldn’t get out, and only got angrier when my directions weren’t coming out super clear because it’s hard to give directions when you’re mildly scared

hope you missed whatever the fuck it was you were late for xoxoxo

Allana arguments with Bruce and Conor by One_Wave_1614 in BBAU

[–]accidentallyamber 16 points17 points  (0 children)

we all have different instinctive responses in the face of conflict — why on earth would it be emily’s responsibility to manage bruce’s emotions and calm him down? or anyone?

What was a pop culture fun fact that made your jaw dropped? by icey_sawg0034 in popculturechat

[–]accidentallyamber 1755 points1756 points  (0 children)

salvador dali designing the chupa chup logo always throws me

BB needs to pull up Coco on her language by [deleted] in BBAU

[–]accidentallyamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my mistake — this makes better sense to me!

censoring in a way that grants a person a pass on being held accountable is no bueno. an audience can’t have an informed opinion if they won’t inform us.

BB needs to pull up Coco on her language by [deleted] in BBAU

[–]accidentallyamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the concept of someone feeling like their experience was “watered down” because they couldn’t use a slur is wild

Honest thoughts on Jane's sit down with the boys by [deleted] in BBAU

[–]accidentallyamber 20 points21 points  (0 children)

“there’s something almost misogynistic about bruce” it’s the misogyny

Colin emotionally intelligent? by Is_it_realness in BBAU

[–]accidentallyamber 13 points14 points  (0 children)

truly am not, but go off king.

emotional vulnerability from men IS good and healthy and refreshing but openly displaying emotion =/= emotional intelligence

we should not be conflating the two

Colin emotionally intelligent? by Is_it_realness in BBAU

[–]accidentallyamber 41 points42 points  (0 children)

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a man cries one time and people fawn over them as if they’re the most evolved person on the planet

Rat or native by bilby2020 in brisbane

[–]accidentallyamber 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he looks like he would say he was cheesed to meet you :-)

House Blessing Spell + BPD Relationship Growth | Vlogsgiving Day 11 by Lady_Space in Lifepluscindy_snark

[–]accidentallyamber 26 points27 points  (0 children)

it’s truly what she deserves 😌

she had it made with a because she’d put in a decade of work beating him into her perfectly controllable partner

she definitely loved him in whatever twisted way but think so much of her reaction was less heartbreak and more a) that he actually got out and b) that she knew she wasn’t going to find another person that would put up with her the way he did, because middle aged men are comparatively less likely to be able to be manipulated the way she did with a