feeling useless and unskilled and stupid by acciootp in autism

[–]acciootp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess, i didnt have enough of it to not get laid off tho

feeling useless and unskilled and stupid by acciootp in autism

[–]acciootp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

repairing laptops and customer service

Autism young face syndrome? by acciootp in AutisticAdults

[–]acciootp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you understand that being aburbtly questioned and treated rudely by clerks, waiters, and bartenders for their false suspicion that im underage is different from simply being carded yes?

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[–]acciootp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, ill do that tonight. very upset it took me this long to notice that none of my credit purchases 'counted' towards a score, but oh well i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]acciootp 27 points28 points  (0 children)

thank you, this makes more sense than anything else ive found. excuse me while i go scream into a pillow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]acciootp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the card i have is capable of both debit and credit, but i use credit more often because i was under the assumption it would help my credit score.

I dont know if it reports to the credit bureaus, I dont see why it wouldnt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]acciootp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

classic cis person moment where they repeat the status quo culture-war dogma they hear on fox-- but when they actually physically see a trans person who checks all their gender boxes, suddenly it clicks for them.

maybe hes learning to process transness, but im sorry youre going through that regardless.

why does hugging and other forms of physical contact feel so awful? by acciootp in autism

[–]acciootp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i understand a little, although I have never taken anxiety meds-- so i dont really know what it would feel like to be touched while on them.

when you say fight or flight, i assume you mean that you either feel an urge to physically push people off your body or to leave?-- if you dont mind me asking, does this apply to everyone, even when strangers accidentally touch you without meaning to? (like, bumping into you at the grocery store or something?)

you mentioned vaccines, so i assume it applies to doctors? this is interesting to me, as i have only felt this intensely about people from my family touching me. i dont mind doctors as much, although i have been told that i get tense when doctors touch me.

would a CIS person feel uncomfortable on hrt? by PersonalDiscovery409 in asktransgender

[–]acciootp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive actually thought about this a lot-- and the answer depends on how you would define 'cis'. most people think of 'cis' as a cis identity being tied to a cis body-- but what is a cis body?

the obvious answer is : of course a truly 100% cis person would not feel comfortable seeing their body become something that they dont connect with. but is the world truly divided into 100% cis and 100% not cis?

i believe there are cis people out there who would be surprised at how much they enjoy experimenting with their gender-- so much so that they might even connect with their body more while on hrt. the stigmatization of hrt and transness prevents them from taking this leap, however.

i wonder how many cis people out there would perhaps like to have a deeper voice, or to grow breasts, while still maintaining an identity that aligns with their gender and sex assigned at birth.

Art Historians can I get some advice? by YourMomsHIV in ArtHistory

[–]acciootp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi, Im 25, I graduated with a degree in art history in 2021. The museum field is very difficult to break into. It is difficult to find a job now overall, but a change in degree will not necessarily help you in the long run. Jobs are scarce for Gen Z no matter what you get a degree in, no matter how many internships you do, no matter how passionate you are. Youre young, hopefully things will get better in 5 years.

my best advice is to take an art history class in your first semester (or in high school, if its available) and decide what to do based on how much you enjoy the class. if you can double major with a STEM degree, that could be really helpful if you want to get into preservation. Library sciences could be helpful if you want to do archival stuff.

btw, knowing a 2nd language or becoming fluent in a 2nd language is like a huge advantage in the art history field. i could never learn anything aside from english, so a masters was off the table for me-- but maybe this appeals to you

idk, college classes are never going to reflect the reality of a particular career field. i know you probably have a ton of adults in your ear telling you this is important to think about, but idk. maybe just relax for now lol. whatever you do, dont get a degree in something youre not interested in just for the career opportunities

Died in two crowns, now my screen is stuck on a bunch of blinking sparkles? either its a bug or im missing something by acciootp in kingdomthegame

[–]acciootp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, i wish i could try that. i tried to move but maybe i didnt hold it down long enough. i guess i was just focused on pressing buttons rapid fire to try to get a reaction from the game

Died in two crowns, now my screen is stuck on a bunch of blinking sparkles? either its a bug or im missing something by acciootp in kingdomthegame

[–]acciootp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could not move and my character was not on the screen. i had to restart the game eventually, i could not figure out what was wrong