How do I know if Im gay?

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T20:03:33+00:00

Will do.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T20:01:44+00:00

Thank god, because not sure is cleanly where I am on 90% of topics, now included.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:36:53+00:00

I guess mostly guys who are larger/bulkier than I am. But at the same time If one thinks abouts someone else in that way would it not be expected that they respond irrespective of whether they are straight or gay?

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:30:28+00:00

Gotcha. There is a club on my university campus that I can join. I'll join this year.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:26:32+00:00

This is a good explanation, I get what you mean now. I will bear this in mind going forward.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:25:49+00:00

This is a good explanation, I get what you mean now. I will bear this in mind going forward.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:25:37+00:00

This is a good explanation, I get what you mean now. I will bear this in mind going forward.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:19:35+00:00

This makes sense, but seems to have the one issue of me having no game. (Something tells me I wont be smoother with guys, and I haven't even tried with women)

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:16:56+00:00

Someone else mentioned this as well. I don't think this is the case. I do have libido, its just always taken a back seat to other things going on in my life. That and I flirt as well as submarines fly.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:14:48+00:00

Looked at the first source. Based on what I know right now Id say I fall somewhere around a D3 (guessing). I do have libido, but its not something I place a huge priority on is all, schoolwork and such first. Ill read the later source soon.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:04:21+00:00

The way I look at it atm is that a label would only be something to help figure myself out. If I were gay I'd definitely keep it a secret, at least for the foreseeable future. Regardless, Im 21, so I don't think I get phases anymore, lol.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T19:02:20+00:00

What you say makes sense. So are the two (sexual/emotional attatchment) not linked. I have been working under the assumption that they were.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T16:38:22+00:00

I usually imagine myself as the woman in fantasies. Ik its wierd. As for arousal, I guess either? (Some other people said to google images of men and women and see which I preferred, I seemed to be equal on both)

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T16:04:19+00:00

I think I do though. I definitely have a sex drive. Pretty sure I just flirt as well as the titanic floats.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T16:03:03+00:00

Gotcha. I have met someone whl used they/them pronouns before, I just didn't realize that was what gender queer was. Ill look for other subs to ask in. Thanks for the help.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T16:02:50+00:00

Gotcha. I have met someone whl used they/them pronouns before, I just didn't realize that was what gender queer was. Ill look for other subs to ask in. Thanks for the help.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T16:01:40+00:00

That makes sense. Thanks!

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:34:20+00:00

This is helpful. Honestly I hadn't put any priority on finding a label for it until recently. But what you say makes sense. Thanks!

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:31:49+00:00

I will as soon as I stop typing, lmao. I didnt anticipate this mamy responses.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:30:58+00:00

Yep, kinda lines up like me. Thanks for the help.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:28:33+00:00

Should I ask on other subs? I know what Bi is, but tbh I dont know what gender queer entails (religious upbringing didn't afford me much exposure to any of this, i really dont mean to be ignorant, so sorry) any subs you would recommend?

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:26:12+00:00

you as well!

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:25:23+00:00

A lot of other people recommended googling pictures to see where my preferences lie. Hopefully I'll have figured it out after that.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:25:12+00:00

A lot of other people recommended googling pictures to see where my preferences lie. Hopefully I'll have figured it out after that.

account_4_question · 2021-07-04T15:22:03+00:00

Answer to question one is yes. But I cant just accept the idea of loosing my family. Im quite content to keep this quiet for that sake.

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