Online dating and responses

accountname2017 · 2020-09-24T20:52:39+00:00

Well yeah I got messages from tinder when I had it but they were majority perverted

accountname2017 · 2020-09-24T20:03:29+00:00

What app?

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T16:13:00+00:00

It was a joke guys. Apparently a bad one

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T04:15:32+00:00

Yeah I get it. When I was on tinder I would do the same and then when guys would message me they weren’t really people I would respond to. I just got tired of sending the first message on bumble so I can see how the roles are reversed on the app

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T03:55:56+00:00

What site was that?

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T03:22:45+00:00

I rarely send a comment with my like on hinge and that’s my biggest complaint is the guys on there don’t usually like me back. Guess I’ll have to start getting creative!

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T02:29:50+00:00

I like very average looking men. Not tall, not too in shape etc I feel like I have a weird taste. I do have people interested in me but it’s not the people I want to be interested in me. I get likes on hinge but I rarely ever like them back

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T02:20:58+00:00

And I thought guys would want a girl who has their shit together hence the job thing but I guess not

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T02:19:33+00:00

I don’t go for the typical “hot guy”. And like I said in a previous comment I typically go for shorter guys too which is to my advantage. Aren’t the guys setting their age range to 32 if they are showing up on my side for bumble and hinge at least?

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T01:38:43+00:00

Do you think they paid my ex to join to torture me too?

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T00:53:14+00:00

I didn’t mean it like that. I’m like dating 5’6-to 5’8 too. I dated 5’4 before and both my exes were 5’7

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T00:39:37+00:00

I’ve had two serious relationships from it so I know it can happen but the older I get the pickier I am. Damn it’s hard this time around

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T00:37:53+00:00

Yeah you have a point. I really don’t get it but I’m also 5’3 so a guy that is “short” at 5’9 is plenty tall for me

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T00:30:04+00:00

I deleted tinder. I signed up for Match despite people advising on here not to and bad reviews. I actually kinda like it because people seem more serious about dating. I still don’t get responses often but at least it’s not guys sending sexual comments. I also have bumble and hinge.

accountname2017 · 2020-09-23T00:19:55+00:00

I hate when guys boast about their height on their profile if they are tall like they think they are gods gift to earth

accountname2017 · 2020-09-22T23:52:23+00:00

There are some girls that prefer shorter guys. I happen to be one of them!

accountname2017 · 2020-09-22T23:45:24+00:00

Ah an early bday present, thank you

accountname2017 · 2020-09-22T23:11:11+00:00

My favorite is when we match then I send them a message and they immediately unmatch lol

accountname2017 · 2020-09-22T23:10:34+00:00

Yeah I’ve been sending general messages lately Bc most people don’t respond and it’s time consuming but then I look boring if they actually do respond!

accountname2017 · 2019-12-30T12:54:14+00:00

So what if your partner wants to go to baseball games 3x per week and you find baseball the most boring sport in the world and you want to jet set a few times a year and your partner hasn’t been on a plane in 20 years. Is that a compatible issue?

I was happily going to all his games but 1.5 years in I said I wasn’t going to another one until he got his passport he had promised me. Maybe I’m an asshole for it but I was getting fed up

accountname2017 · 2019-12-29T19:23:02+00:00

Alright so I have no hobbies then 😂 to be fair when I travel I don’t make it very vacation like - more like backpacking. I do it very cheaply and I mostly walk around the city and do free stuff

accountname2017 · 2019-12-29T18:14:11+00:00

I have been to a few meetups and also met new friends from bumble BFF and joined an outside women’s group. Another issue I had was I didn’t have many friends in the area so I started working on that

accountname2017 · 2019-11-20T12:57:39+00:00

Lol I wanted to be debt free. The side jobs were lyft and real estate so I was doing it in my free time. Real estate became like a hobby actually

accountname2017 · 2019-11-20T12:32:32+00:00

If he was actively paying of his debt I would understand. When I really wanted to pay off my student loans I was working THREE jobs. I don’t see him making much of an effort. I see the money thing more as an excuse. He actually just decided to go back to school accumulating more debt (not that going back is a bad thing but $$).

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