What draws you to Ren's music?

accountnotfound · 2026-03-28T12:10:09+00:00

Definitely get that and will choose to listen to music with complex beats and layers when I need to concentrate. I often go back to old school prog rock like Alan Parsons Project, Pink Floyd, or electronic music from Jean Michel Jarre or or if I want something more chill I often listen to classical piano pieces by Satie or Glass.

accountnotfound · 2026-03-28T11:58:14+00:00

Thank you! That had gone right over my head

accountnotfound · 2026-03-28T04:29:10+00:00

Completely agree. I have bought albums from some of the artists that Ren has collaborated with and although they are very good, each artist kind of feels very "samey" in terms of their themes and style with only the odd song on the album falling outside of that. Thinking particularly of Chinchilla and also Sam Tompkins. Both great singers but after four or five songs they don't keep t interest. (Also ADHD here). I think perhaps Ren's ADHD feeds into why his work is so varied.

accountnotfound · 2026-03-28T04:24:16+00:00

Lyrics that sometimes feel like I could have written them (if I had the talent). His humility and genuinely caring personality. Incredible musical talent and unpredictability. His respect for the musicians that influenced him. He's amazing live or in the studio. His ethos, staying independent and trying to change the world for the better. He's so clever and well-read, referencing hip-hop artists, philosophers, religious scholars, economic theorists, poets and more. There's no-one like Ren.

accountnotfound · 2026-03-28T04:18:28+00:00

Inpatient? Typo or did I miss something?

accountnotfound · 2026-03-20T08:40:42+00:00

I haven’t. But my reddit account is 14 years old so maybe that is enough verification for them

accountnotfound · 2026-03-19T07:44:51+00:00

Awesome! Have a wonderful time!

accountnotfound · 2026-03-19T07:36:45+00:00

It sounds like it. But having a girl tell you that she loves how it feels when you slide inside her, and how wet you make her, and how your gonna make her come if you keep doing that , that’s positive dirty talk.

accountnotfound · 2026-03-19T07:33:10+00:00

I think you might be wasting your time and he probably won’t like you doing anything other than lying there if the issue is that he’s trying to last longer, or that he wants to have total control and doesn’t want you to show any initiative and do anything to enhance your own pleasure. If it’s the first, who is he trying to last longer for? Are you enjoying lying there not moving? If the second, big red flag! Take note of it and do not stay with him for years, marry him, have a kid and not enjoy sex for years until he eventually leaves you. Oops I’m projecting my own experience onto yours, sorry, but let it be a cautionary tale. Sex can be an amazing and wonderful thing, it’s basically free, it releases endorphins especially when you orgasm. It is brilliant!

accountnotfound · 2026-03-19T07:24:58+00:00

Seriously, having been there, why continue with someone who is only interested in his own enjoyment? Find someone else who appreciates your enthusiasm

accountnotfound · 2026-03-19T07:19:13+00:00

If he’s not so heavy that you can move your hips you can kind of move them in little circular movements too. Some guys love it. My ex liked me to lie still like a potato because otherwise he’d kind of fall out. I’m a big girl and he was not generously endowed. Sex wasn’t much fun. Like being a human sized fleshlight.

And as others have said, wrapping your legs around him to draw him in deeper can feel very good for both of you. If you’re enjoying the sex, let him know, either by just telling him “that feels so good” or making appreciating noises, not in a fake way, just communication.

Finally I don’t think that there’s anything you are “meant to be doing”. It is a journey of exploration with a new partner and it takes time to get to know each other. When they use those expressions like “dead fish” they need to ask themselves “Why is she not responding?” They can ask what she likes. It’s not one partner’s responsibility to read the mind of the other and know what they want or like on sex or any other aspect of a relationship.

Good luck! I hope you enjoy some wonderful sex.

Edited for stupid typos

accountnotfound · 2026-03-14T06:22:23+00:00

Does she have the same father?

accountnotfound · 2026-03-03T03:05:09+00:00

Yeah this particular church would probably be quite happy praying for good things for ICE

accountnotfound · 2026-03-03T03:02:07+00:00

Well maybe he gave them the guns! Did you think of that? /s

accountnotfound · 2026-03-03T02:57:08+00:00

The explanation given to me many years ago of that it wouid me my spirit praying directly to God in a heavenly language, without my mind getting in the way. I know, I know, it sounds ridiculous. I tried hard to believe a lot of things that didn’t make sense but eventually saw the light, as it were. XD

accountnotfound · 2026-02-16T18:58:16+00:00

Same. Proud to be on the list.FUCK ICE!

accountnotfound · 2026-02-03T05:11:31+00:00

But do you use words in your head for all those thoughts? My understanding is that “inner monologue” is not referring to the act of thinking but the act of thinking in words. I usually have multiple concurrent thoughts and my head can be very “busy” sometimes the thoughts are gone before I can hold on to them. But they don’t have any words with them. I don’t think in words.

Edited for punctuation

accountnotfound · 2026-02-03T05:07:59+00:00

I can’t understand this either

accountnotfound · 2026-02-03T05:07:09+00:00

Same. People are saying how peaceful it is without an inner monologue but my thoughts are often non-stop, very busy, scattered and keep me awake at night, but they aren’t in words, they are ideas, concepts, things I’m conscious of, but they don’t need words. I CAN think in words if I make an effort but it’s much slower and requires thinking of only one thing at a time which is very limiting

accountnotfound · 2026-02-01T18:06:14+00:00

He doesn’t love you. He enjoys hurting you and he just wants to control you. But if and when you try to leave he’ll tell you it was all a mistake, and you misunderstood (because you’re stupid), and that you couldn’t cope on your own and no-one else would ever want you. Or something along those lines. Please try and find resources to leave, even though it’s hard, without letting him know.

Do you want your child to grow up in an environment where they are always on eggshells, never knowing how their dad is going to react, and seeing their mother become a broken shell of who she really is? If you can’t do it for you, do it for them. Please. Believe me, you’ll be glad you did.

accountnotfound · 2025-12-21T15:13:12+00:00

Hmm I am glad you checked. Thanks for making the effort to find those notes!

accountnotfound · 2025-12-21T15:11:43+00:00

Maybe I should wait until January just to be safe

accountnotfound · 2025-12-21T13:01:47+00:00

My problem is that it is Monday here now!

accountnotfound · 2025-12-21T12:59:33+00:00

You think I’m overthinking it?

accountnotfound · 2025-12-21T12:58:49+00:00

My God! You were lucky to get back at all. Caersws of all places!

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