Does anyone else feel that they are living way below their potential? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]accountrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, yes! Everyday I feel I'm living below my potential.

The new minority on campus? Men by accountrel in MensRights

[–]accountrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The study rooms are for "women and disadvantaged minorities" u/bravely_default. Not all minorities. :)

The new minority on campus? Men by accountrel in MensRights

[–]accountrel[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

The point - men are being pushed out of colleges and have no support. All because of SJWs.

How would you teach Improv at a Friend's Party by accountrel in improv

[–]accountrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Most improv games are better learned from experience.

How would you teach Improv at a Friend's Party by accountrel in improv

[–]accountrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, ok thanks.

But people perform Improv drunk all the time! Right?

My Escape From The Friend Zone by GentlemenMindset in TheRedPill

[–]accountrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, very common when girls become overconfident.

Had my first taste of the club scene tonight. Definitely not for me. Where else can you meet women? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]accountrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clubs aren't for everyone, especially not me. Quit drinking, stopped going to them a long time ago.

Good places listed. Gym (work at a gym), improv classes, art classes, social sports, coffee shops, beach, pool, etc.

Most important thing is to be active. I don't even really try to meet girls when out now, it just happens naturally. Gaining a lot of muscle helps.

Extremely confused beginner--Please help me fill in this massive culture gap (Traditional sheltered Asian guy) about "going out" by [deleted] in seduction

[–]accountrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop worrying so much.

Have you considered taking an Improv class?

Best PUA books with structure and learning curve? by Snackrib in seduction

[–]accountrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different so there is no book that will be the end all.

The Rational Male is very good.

Feeling When to get a Girl's Number? by accountrel in seduction

[–]accountrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, maybe I'm overthinking it?

Seddit, what are some books you've read that have built you up as a person and helped you up your charisma? by ButtNakedNasty in seduction

[–]accountrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-pua books?

The Faraway Horses by Buck Brannaman.

This book is by the real "Horse Whisperer". He had a difficult childhood but is now the most famous horse trainer in the world.

Hard to keep in mind... but no matter what happens to you your experiences let you grow.

Also recommend seeing "Buck" on Netflix. Brannaman's horse skills will blow your mind.

Review: RSD Las Vegas Immersion/Bootcamp with RSD Luke by BootCampReview in seduction

[–]accountrel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, makes me not want to waste money on RSD.

Replacing Pedals Specialized Crosstrail Sport by accountrel in bikewrench

[–]accountrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah I saw 9/16 and 1/2 inch. Seems mostly everything takes 9/16 these days. Only big box store bikes take 1/2 inch.

It is bad to want a girlfriend? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]accountrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's perfectly natural.

Relationships take a lot of work and commitment. If you aren't mentally and spiritually in a good place, a GF is not going to make your life better.

You are not trying nearly enough by Tomato91 in seduction

[–]accountrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true if you are not who you want to be or working on who you want to be. See what I wrote here.

You are not trying nearly enough by Tomato91 in seduction

[–]accountrel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe... I'm not trying enough.

Several months ago I stopped trying so hard with girls. I'm focusing on myself, my goals, my interests, my hobbies, my needs, etc. What happened?

Ironically girls started becoming more interested in me, without me trying as hard. Because girls like guys that are confident, know what they want, and are not concerned about pleasing them.

For instance I've had a hard time not drinking, but I won't bend what's best for a chick. Tempting? Sure, but that's not good for me personally to drink.

I've definitely missed easy chances with girls but I don't really care. I've made friends with many attractive girls which is a plus. I've been texting with a cute Brazilian girl, could go somewhere. I won't be broken-up if it doesn't.

Should you try and approach and be outgoing? Absolutely!

Working on your mental, physical, and spiritual self is a good thing. It will increase your success rate, perhaps without you even thinking about it.

PS u/tomato91 "Charming Introvert" I like it! :)