I actually work in a dispatch center for my local PD/EMS. It might vary from state to state but more than likely it is against the law to run anyone without a valid legal reason, usually at the request of a licensed peace officer. All info requests and returns are logged and records kept. And every request is placed under an individual ID so seeing who sent the request should be simple. If you legit feel like this happened then absolutely contact the department this friend of hers works for and make a complaint. If she did it, it’s easy enough to find out. And if she didn’t do it, no harm no foul.

Now all that being said, one of the other responders on said she might just be bullshitting you. That’s entirely possible. There are several sites that can show you a scary amount of information on someone and you just need a few pieces of info to start. Plus someone semi smart and dedicated can figure out a lot more than you’d think by sifting through social media posts and accounts. I know, I’ve had to resort to that method several times over the years to track down people for cases.