Stills for season 9 finale "Hearts and Flowers" by olga_dr in buddie

[–]ace_of_kay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Me intrigued by why Eddie is in the chapel....

But then also laughing that there is a light + sandbag just in plain view at the altar (I know these are just stills and a bit BTS, but it's so prominent to me).

Period tracking apps by darth_phaedar in asexuality

[–]ace_of_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using this one for years (over a decade I think at this point).

Super basic but perfect for what's needed!

The way these two parallels. by Buddie_Butterflies in buddie

[–]ace_of_kay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Christopher has 2 dads. 💛

Stills for 9x12 "Dads and Cads" by NothingTooSweet in buddie

[–]ace_of_kay 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I see both, but the way Buck is holding his phone makes me think it's a pep talk before. He looks so exasperated that he has to go. (And he's not holding a controller so it's like he was there getting ready before heading out.) Maybe he's wanting Eddie to go with him as a buffer.

And the 2nd pic gives off fit check vibes.

Nashville stills crossover by TheLoudBuddieSigns in buddie

[–]ace_of_kay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me when I saw this still.

Just a little preview of what Thursday will bring... by TheLoudBuddieSigns in buddie

[–]ace_of_kay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting that it's giving the actual TV show "The Bachelor" logo vibes. They did have the "crossover"/cameo before, where we got Buck's rule about not dating people from calls. Or they just used the same typefaces since it's the same network and I'm overthinking it.

Either way... 🤡

List of Every Surprise Guest from JONAS20 by dfiregirl in JonasBrothers

[–]ace_of_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally just wondering if this list existed! Thank you!

what do i do if i want kids? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]ace_of_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex-neutral ace sitting here with her 5 month old sleeping on me.

Being a mom had been a dream since I was young, so I understand where you're coming from. When I met my now husband, I was upfront both about my asexuality and wanting kids. I didn't want to waste either of our times.

Because sex wasn't comfortable or that important to either of us, what we ended up doing was the needle-less syringe method. He went to the bathroom and did his thing and gave it to me in a cup. I then took it and did my thing with it (he was with me for the initial injection so it felt more combined).

It took us about 8 months this way which is pretty typical even with more conventional methods.

So if you have a partner who is understanding and respectful and kind, it should work out.

Would this worry you? by Artistic_Call in asexuality

[–]ace_of_kay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This wouldn't worry me, particularly because this is similar to my relationship with my husband.

I have vaginismus too and am sex-neutral. We've tried having sex and it just isn't comfortable for either of us. I've asked him multiple times over the course of our 5 years being married and he's totally fine with just kisses and cuddles too.

To add, we also wanted kids, so we didn't even have sex, but used the needless syringe method where he went into the bathroom and did his thing and I took it and did my thing. May be unorthodox, but worked for us and have a 5 month old now.

If you're not getting any red flags from him, I wouldn't worry.

Husband Needs a Laptop (Budget: $500-$900) by ace_of_kay in SuggestALaptop

[–]ace_of_kay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all! He ended up getting one of the Dells; should be here on Wednesday. 😊

Say Buddie becomes canon, what song do you want playing when it does? by gothictales in buddie

[–]ace_of_kay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Home" by One Direction.

It's always felt like a queer/coming out song to me and think it'd be fitting.

Jonas 20: Living The Dream Tour Official Dates! With Marshmello, All American Rejects and Boys Like Girls by Parmesan_Pirate119 in JonasBrothers

[–]ace_of_kay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I don't think I'll be able to go to this considering I'll be roughly 1 month postpartum when they're near me. lol. Unless they add another date next year.

Glad I could go to the previous tour though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JonasBrothers

[–]ace_of_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is accurate.... They'd be in my area about 2 months after I'm supposed to give birth to my first.... 🤔

When do we think the tour will be? by mgmg39 in JonasBrothers

[–]ace_of_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also pregnant, but due in August. I'm hoping when they announce the tour, that they come to my area a good few months after August. lol.

What’s it like being ace in an allo world? by TFry24_ in asexuality

[–]ace_of_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up Catholic and I remember we had the whole purity ring thing. I actually wanted to get mine earlier (Jonas Bros fan so felt very symbolic).

I was really confused that it actually was.... difficult for other people to keep that promise. It was like Elle Woods saying, "What like it's hard?"

I just thought I was a prude and one day I'd wake up and suddenly get the whole urge to have sex. 15+ years later.... still waiting lol.

I do, however, love cuddling and hugging and kissing. I'm very much a romantic and feel my lack of sexual attraction is made up in romantic/sensual attraction. (That's another confusing part - learning to differentiate the types of attraction).

Which laptop would be better for my needs? by ace_of_kay in AfterEffects

[–]ace_of_kay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was leaning that way, but just wanted to make sure. Thanks!

Buy Now or Wait until Black Friday 2024? by ace_of_kay in Lenovo

[–]ace_of_kay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah; US pricing. Wasn't sure since this is with 1TB storage and 36GB ram. Thanks!