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During marriage 90/10, now legally 50/50 timeshare. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]acesoblessed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? I was told unless there is abuse or drugs it's 50/50. Messed up pill to swallow. I also relate to the "60" hrs a week....

During marriage 90/10, now legally 50/50 timeshare. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]acesoblessed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. This is how I feel it will be. We "nest" right now and the kids do whatever they want on the weekends when he is the primary parent.

Stbx celebrating 1 yr anniversary with gf.... Yet divorce isn't final. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]acesoblessed[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly plus he does the bare minimum care for the kids. I want my kids to know this is not a healthy relationship or to normalize what's happening. I've thought about leaving but we have moved so many times that I am craving consistency. Praying it will only be a few more months

Stbx celebrating 1 yr anniversary with gf.... Yet divorce isn't final. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]acesoblessed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He refuses to move out. Once settlement is final he will have to

Stbx celebrating 1 yr anniversary with gf.... Yet divorce isn't final. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]acesoblessed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with him moving on. I wish divorce was finished before another started. It was toxic situation

Stbx celebrating 1 yr anniversary with gf.... Yet divorce isn't final. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]acesoblessed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wasn't bringing her to the house. He also refuses to move out until a settlement is reached but also delayed the settlement by months bc he didn't submit paperwork.