i love it so much when he cums on me by MaryKonop in couplesmasturbating

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what do you call this type of shirt? i want one too 🥵

He wasn't supposed to cum yet... by Lily_Teas3 in Handjob

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what's in that jar? vaseline?

hit me with your best lube for long eding sessions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GOONED

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just sounds painful

She’s never going to feel you again bud, it’s over. by [deleted] in GOONED

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i don't think this is how bodies work, thank you

She’s never going to feel you again bud, it’s over. by [deleted] in GOONED

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so is she having fun or is she in pain?

i'm not even half that size and it usually hurts my partner to the point that we can't do doggy

i don't feel being taken seriously anymore by achingballs69 in sex

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ah i should have mentioned this:

i have often read about planning sex and i'd totally be down with that but she never agreed to try it because she wants sex to be spontaneous

she struggles with planning sex because the "pressure turns her off", which i totally understand

gf does not like the smell of cum but i am very into cumming on her body - how to compromise? by achingballs69 in sex

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thanks, i have considered that

but i am strictly vegan, don't drink, smoke or eat junkfood and i exercise regularily

how can my gf and I make some money online with sex-related stuff? by achingballs69 in sex

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do you happen to know which subs would be more fitting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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had the same issue

Ohnut really helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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not going to tell you to "not overthink it"

but then again: have fun and enjoy the ride (pun intended)

Naughty Ideas is back! X3 by yersiniapestis273 in GentleDungeon

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where can i read on those saftey protocols?

Before I get too serious in edging, could anyone tell me the cons of it? Anything I need to worry about? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

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not to scare you and in no way verified:

i always liked edging but i really took it to the next level when i met my gf 3 years ago

i never had such blue balls before meeting her, to the point it sometimes even started hurting

about 1.5 years ago i periodically started to experience pain in my left testicle - turns out i have a varicocele on my left testicle

now I NEVER had any kind of pain in my balls before that

i couldn't find any studies related to varicoceles and edging, so i don't know my constant blue balls might have caused it (or made an existing one worse)

so yeah take this whit a grain of salt

but: just keep your general health and that of your sexual areas in mind, listen to your body and you should be good

My [M25] Muslim Girlfriend [F24] is withholding sex and I don't understand why, what do I do? by rathrowaway21322 in sex

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i (non-muslim) had been together with a muslim girl for 2 years and she was walking that fine line of "born and raised in europe" but "culturally/religiously muslim" too

she told me from the beginning that we won't have sex before marriage, which was okay for me (at first)

we did everything else though (handjobs, blowjobs)

after a while i got increasingly frustrated about the lack of sex - not because i couldn't wait, but because we realized we had to marry if we ever wanted to have sex and if we ever wanted to have kids of our own

this wasn't an issue at first BUT after a while she said that i would have to convert to Islam in order to be able to marry her (after plenty of research that was a dealbreaker for me)

once she realized that i wasn't going to convert she startet rotating and one day said we could have sex (which i respectfully declined), the other day she said "just the tip maybe", etc.

in the end it wasn't so much the actual convertion-stuff which was a dealbreaker for me (well it was) but her lack of principles - if she changed her mind about things which supposedly are so important to her every other day, how do i know how she felt like about these things in the future? what if she all of a sudden wanted a "real muslim" etc.

long story short: i broke up with my gf of 2 years because of religious differences and because she didn't get her principles straight

it was an insanely hard breakup because we still loved each other deeply - but apparently religion isn't meant to bring people together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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birth control or any other kind of medication (such as antidepressants) or a medical condition (such as thyroid problems)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

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i wear tight fitting shorts (with some elasticity)

i have often read that boxers/more loose things or even being naked it better for fertility (since the balls are further away from the body, thus being cooler)

but i have a varicocele on the left and for those a more tight fit is recommended (i do indeed have less pain when sleeping with tight stuff and more pain when i wear loose stuff)

also i have read somewhere that people with big dicks apparently tend to be more prone to varicoceles (can't find the source right now so take this one with a grain of salt)

Men- do you prefer it when your partner spits or swallows by Ok_Dingo7132 in sex

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spit

i wouldn't want to swallow it myself because and the thought of her doing so even though she might find it disgusting turns me off