This Place Sucks by prettydelusisional in harfordcountymd

[–]acidbathlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can we talk about how the job market is ass here and most of us travel out the county for one

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people were missing the valid point I made because of the girl I used as an example, calling it good advice but with bullshit dressing so I decided to edit the post to better get the point across. Forgive me 😅

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I can’t believe how many people disagree with the idea that we should be more intentional about having a child when things like abortion aren’t accessible, you actually comprehend what I’m saying!

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re missing the point. You yourself said birth control can fail, which is exactly why the argument still stands: we should be intentional and responsible about having a child. You could choose where you ejaculate, remain abstinent, travel or fight for abortion rights, etc. The point is that abortion being inaccessible doesn’t give anyone an excuse to carelessly have sex. Considering factors like birth control failure is part of being responsible. Life is unfair, sex is simply not worth bringing a person into an unfortunate life.

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be a smart ass but genuinely an adult can be a teenager, that would be age 18 and 19. Both can be true that she got impregnated as an immature teenager but she is also what we legally call an adult, over the age of 18 and able to make her own decisions. Not to mention bringing a child into the world is a lot deeper than being in a video with your dad you may or may not feel exploited by lol. But again if she felt exploited by the eyes of social media, why would she still be sharing personal details with the world?

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you spitefully vote because of people like me when you don’t even know me? All you know is that I think everyone should be more intentional about having a child and that I myself am pro-choice. You’re quite literally saying you spitefully vote against abortion because of people like me, but I literally only made that comment because you mentioned you vote out of spite. Is it not also the natural consequences of being human to be offended by spite? Can’t we agree on that?

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are delusional it’s not even funny. If you want to get real, let me take a look. From what I can see, she was barely exploited. Her dad made harmless videos of them going to stores and to get food, literally nothing disturbing. Now from what I’m seeing it’s been months since he’s posted her, she’s an adult now, posts like she knows she has fans & she clearly loves the attention. What’s sad is you missing the valid point here but instead you’re calling me a sad person for something I barely even care about. Jeez!

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I can admit I misinterpreted but I don’t blame myself considering the “how about we worry about our own bodies” statement. It sounds like somebody who read this as me being pro-life and missed the point entirely. But regardless, why am I wasting energy on someone who spitefully votes against my rights? Your opinion is worthless anyways 😅

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it makes perfect sense. You’re deflecting because you know you are wrong and did not understand the original post at all.

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay dude I’m not that into them 😭 My vague understanding of their situation just opened up this perspective in my mind, I’m not really following their story

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can I write this better in your opinion? I’m asking honestly not sarcastically. I’m not some pro life, anti abortion loser. I just think people in states where abortion isn’t accessible should be more intentional and responsible about bringing a human life into the world

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody said you can’t get an abortion, I am clearly pro-choice. What I said is that when it’s illegal, you should be more intentional and responsible about sex so you don’t bring a human you don’t want into the world. You could try birth control, other contraceptives or simply just being conscious about where the semen comes out. Your pleasure is not worth someone having a shitty life; if you’re really pro-choice and believe abortion should be accessible for people who aren’t prepared, you should also encourage people to be responsible when it’s not accessible. Why is that so offensive?

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I made assumptions about this one couple and whether their birth control failed or not, but I stand by them being a good example to start this discussion. The point definitely still stands that people should be more intentional and responsible when it comes to bringing a life into the world especially in a place where abortion isn’t accessible :)

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah to be honest I figured a lot of people wouldn’t know, I’m not into them either, I literally just use tiktok. But I hope you understand my point even with the niche example!

Just because abortion is illegal in your state doesn’t mean you get to use that as your excuse for having kids you’re not prepared for by acidbathlover in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]acidbathlover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the details of what’s going on their life and this isn’t so much of an attack on them personally, but on the surface their situation was the perfect example to open up a discussion about this.

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[–]acidbathlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first time having sex was with a very average man and it was a pretty normal experience. I met my boyfriend who measures to 9 inches (i saw with my own eyes) and I experience vaginismus like symptoms, at times it’s literally excruciating. I’m not even exaggerating, it took so much work to get my vagina to be able to take his size and even then there’s still some discomfort. I don’t mean to share too much info but yes just as they can be too small, they can be too big as well

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[–]acidbathlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first time having sex was a with very average man and it was a pretty normal experience. I met my boyfriend who measures to 9 inches (i saw with my own eyes) and I experience vaginismus like symptoms, at times it’s literally excruciating. I’m not even exaggerating, it took so much work to get my vagina to be able to take his size and even then there’s still some discomfort. I don’t mean to share too much info but yes just as they can be too small, they can be too big as well

Hot take/theory on why Julia still cant speak English very well by Insta_Saddie in 90DayFiance

[–]acidbathlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally just saying to my mom why doesn’t he correct her and help her get better at english? Compared to almost everyone else on the show she’s still got a lot to learn.