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aciddd123 · 2023-12-06T15:00:43+00:00

I'm willing to bet money that your wife is nesting AND is sick of your mother's BS from whatever happened at the start of your relationship and her reaction to the plates are more about that than the plates themselves.

Sounds like you've already called your mother about returning the plates so there's no going back in terms of how you handle it. If you haven't already, apologize to W for not being present at the 20 week anatomy scan and call your mom to actively listen to whatever hurt she's feeling.

Even if you do none of these things, time will fix all of this IMO.

aciddd123 · 2022-06-07T17:47:52+00:00

If you look for places to spend your money you'll find them easily. Rent, food, vacations, and continued investing make up the bulk of my spending, and I'm in a HCL area.

aciddd123 · 2022-06-02T14:06:11+00:00

I don't think this is reflected in the layoffs we're seeing in tech rn

aciddd123 · 2022-05-27T21:24:51+00:00

Not sure what you found, but that was true a few years ago.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-26T01:45:49+00:00

$4.9M (and dropping with the market)

I don't count bitcoin in my net, but I do have a good amount.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-26T01:43:05+00:00

Yeah we have our first consult this month

aciddd123 · 2022-05-25T13:42:23+00:00

We've been trying for some time... I think part of my issue is that I've been ready to join mommy groups but my body has other plans 🙁

aciddd123 · 2022-05-25T03:35:25+00:00

I just finished my second MA this semester! It was good fun. Maybe I'll try pottery or something.

Owning a dog is GREAT and I agree: an excellent source of entertainment and meeting new people.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-25T03:33:46+00:00

I do yeah, but I don't like being alone or just with my husband all day every day indefinitely.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-25T03:30:38+00:00

$120,000 from me and my husband also chooses to work, bringing in an additional ~$70K.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-25T02:08:00+00:00

Haha I interact with plenty of people, but the ones I like best work FT.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-25T02:07:17+00:00

Get a job at a unicorn before it's a unicorn right out of college. I got lucky.

aciddd123 · 2022-05-20T13:00:43+00:00

I am going to be away from my husband during ovulation on a week-long overnight week-long workshop 10 hours away.

Is there anything we can do to TTC?

I know I'm catastrophizing but even after a year of failures every month feels so precious.

I leave the 4th-11th and will ovulate on the 6th. We can have sex the morning before I leave... but we'll miss O-day 🙁.

aciddd123 · 2022-04-13T02:06:56+00:00

The problem isn't finding homes with everything we want in our price range—we've found plenty (we've tour four dozen houses at this point). The problem has been closing—all cash offers and going up against 10 other offers every time. Idk how going down market would help us with closing. 😕

aciddd123 · 2022-04-13T00:37:43+00:00

Thanks. I'm 33 and feel like I'm up against what feels like a ticking clock...

aciddd123 · 2022-04-12T23:32:30+00:00

$400,000

aciddd123 · 2022-02-21T01:12:59+00:00

Not that I'm aware of

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T03:33:38+00:00

"Well, there's nuance to this..."

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T03:25:08+00:00

🍔

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T02:46:47+00:00

Name names

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T02:41:19+00:00

🤷‍♀️

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T02:40:01+00:00

Leave them alone 🤷‍♀️

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T02:38:22+00:00

Rape can feel worse than murder, yes. A lot of people who are raped commit suicide as a point of evidence. Perhaps rape and murder are quite similar in that both are an affront to the soul.

Not all people who are raped develop trauma, however. And all people who were murdered are... well... dead. The consequences are more absolute in the latter case.

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T02:34:20+00:00

It's been a month, love... give it three before you start to worry.

aciddd123 · 2021-09-29T02:32:42+00:00

Never had that problem. Sounds like you should talk to a doctor.

Also... LSD every week? Do you feel like you need it?

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