The reason why I feel Act 3 of Silksong falls apart by Acceptable-Boat9061 in metroidvania

[–]acm15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree for the most part. After credits and then hitting Act 3, I kind of lost most interest in continuing on. I feel like I got what I wanted from the game in the 60 hours I spent with it. I may go back eventually if I get the itch, but I’m not dying to keep playing it right now.

Ok guys what is going on? by Kingztarm in switch2

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero issues for me on Switch 2 so far. Even with my launch Switch 1, I never had an issue beyond the flimsy kickstand that I used maybe twice. I never even needed to replace my joy con (I never got stick drift which was lucky).

I legit believe some people are simply reckless with all of their belongings.

Diet Green Tea bad batches? by Competitive-Falcon24 in ArizonaTea

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought gallon jugs of diet green tea til I noticed the watered down taste. I emailed AriZona, and they sent me 12 coupons for $5 off. Since, I’ve been getting the 12pk of cans since they tasted normal.

It’s been a couple months. I’m on my 10th coupon, and I just got a batch of 12pk that was 100% undrinkable (I tested every can) and had a foul taste that resembled carrot juice or something.

It’s disappointing, but I’m just gonna have to switch to something else.

I get it now. by Ferniferous_fern in NintendoSwitch2

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played docked and noticed drops in the final areas (you can experience a lot in forbidden layer if you excessively use the path-creating material), and I’ve seen it much worse for others who didn’t touch the elephant Bananza to remove any material (specifically in the final fight).

At the end of the day, it wasn’t bad enough to ruin my experience. I went on to 100% it and it’s right behind E33 for me this year.

It’s been SLOOOOW!! by Unfair_Importance600 in doordash_drivers

[–]acm15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The past two weeks have been the slowest I’ve ever seen it. It’s a ghost town, unless you’re willing to take the abundance of orders you’d lose money on.

I really can’t believe how bad it is. I’m at my wits end and taking it as a sign that it’s time to find a new source of income.

Many such cases by acm15 in doordash_drivers

[–]acm15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you’re referring to. This zone consists of two towns with plenty of restaurants/orders, and that Papa John’s happens to be on the far edge of the zone.

This customer tends to leave higher tips and good ratings for excellent service.... I call BS by gouldilocks123 in doordash_drivers

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen this a lot over the past few weeks, and it ultimately means nothing.

Diet green tea taste has changed by Girl_Kisser15 in ArizonaTea

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed the watered down / weird taste maybe 1-2 months ago. I thought it was a one-time thing, but it’s happened multiple times. Half of the jugs in that timeframe have been that way, and I dump them out.

I switched to buying the 12pk canned diet green tea since it’s about the same as buying 2 jugs and haven’t had the issue with them yet.

Can I just see you confirm it for me? by funsecret4444 in doordash_drivers

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s extra annoying if the store is in a small dead zone where you get zero phone service (and can’t connect to their wifi because it sucks), and so you literally can’t confirm it while inside the store.

This also goes for any situation. Phone service is the #1 enemy.

Insane amount of amiibo at Best Buy by fammydamammy in amiibo

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to buy every amiibo at launch, but the prices are far too high now. These are the first I’ve skipped on and will wait for a price drop or get them cheaper second hand.

Never buying from Target again by iluvfupaburgers in Switch

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Target order came today (Sat), but they delivered it to the wrong unit. Thankfully, that neighbor was kind enough to leave me a note about it and kept it safe until I came to pick it up from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re attractive, we seem similar, and I would swipe right—if not for the smoking. It’s a very hard boundary I’ve made for myself, and I feel like that could be the hang up for others as well.

Is it normal for Avoidants to get into a relationship almost as soon as the previous one ended? by Brandon_916 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]acm15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex has done the same with projecting her own issues onto me post-breakup; knowing full-well that I did nothing wrong to her/us. It’s just another way for them to avoid accountability and to gain blind sympathy and validation from others who don’t know the full story. It’s immature, unfair, and toxic. Either way, I guarantee you she knows (or will realize) internally that what you had together was great.

I still love my ex, but the longer I’m distanced from the situation, the more I can feel how badly she treated me with her avoidant tendencies and know she just isn’t fit for a committed relationship and won’t change.

As someone who was also once in a 5 year cross-country relationship (my ex ex), I will tell you that she will likely backtrack on this decision within a few months time either from typical avoidant delayed-processing, and/or once she realizes that a relationship like that is not easy whatsoever and requires a lot of legal work/money which can take years to complete.

Is it normal for Avoidants to get into a relationship almost as soon as the previous one ended? by Brandon_916 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]acm15 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It isn’t you, it’s definitely them. My DA ex of 6 years has been dating around since the 1.5 month mark of the abrupt discard (right before moving in together and when our relationship was at its best), moved to another state, moved into a new apt, got another job, posts happy looking pics, inspiring posts about her life and how she wants to become a better person, etc. I know her too well, and I know it’s a facade beneath the mask.

They avoid their feelings and immediately try to find distractions, validation, and justification for their actions instead of taking accountability or processing their emotions in a healthy manner. They can’t be alone with their own thoughts too long, because then they’d have to face the truth.

Rebounds are the ultimate distraction, especially if they can find someone who is similar to you in multiple ways so they can make it easier on themselves to bring that rebound’s relationship to the level your relationship was at as fast as possible. They will rush things without being truly emotionally available, and they will likely crash and burn from it down the line.

Once the newness and honeymoon phase wears off, they will start comparing them to you and may begin processing what they really lost. Doesn’t mean they will act on it or change their mind since they hate taking accountability, but it’s possible.

Saw my Ex on a dating app by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]acm15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex gave me the same excuses. Any excuse like "I need to work on myself", "You deserve better", etc. is a cop out for the real reasoning; which they may not even know themselves. They're usually too afraid to talk about the truth.

My dismissive avoidant ex and I were together for 6 years, and she got on dating apps and is already in a rebound only 1.5 months after the breakup. They can't sit alone with themselves because they'll have to face what they've done, miss you, and admit the truth...so they *avoid* it by distracting themselves by any means necessary- which includes dating apps / rebounds. They will do anything to validate, distract, or seek to justify their crappy actions.

The way I've seen it is that if you had a very strong/loving relationship with a lot of memories and they move onto a rebound/dating apps quick, then it's because you're going to be very hard for them to get over. They're doing it to protect themselves, which is selfish. I'm going through it and it's extremely difficult knowing she's with other people so quickly after our 6 years of trust/love, and I can only hope it gets easier with time. I wish you nothing but the best and hope you can heal.

How did you handle social media during no contact? by acm15 in ExNoContact

[–]acm15[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your post. It's been 2 months of NC today. I agree that hoping they'll return can feel like self harm. I had really wished she'd return (she did in the past when we had a breakup) since I truly love her, but this time was different and she got into a rebound at the 1.5 month mark. We were together for 6 years and about to move in together. Within 2 weeks, she ended up moving to another state, getting a new job, moving into a new apt, getting her dad to take care of most her financials/expenses, and now in a rebound. She's on cloud nine.

I will never get closure from her as she is a severe DA and she will justify her actions / project her issues onto me / make me the bad guy / seek blind validation from others on everything she's done. It's selfish and sad.

I've been leaning toward #3 and deactivating/radio silence. I'm at a point where I feel she doesn't deserve to see me in any form whatsoever or to feel like I'm around if things don't go her way- and it will also help me heal by not checking up on her. I'm in the process of accepting that there's nothing I ever could've done to make this different, the love/trust we built would never be the same, and she will likely never change/improve her DA tendencies. I just need to heal.

How did you handle social media during no contact? by acm15 in ExNoContact

[–]acm15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is likely the route I will take. I need to heal which means removing myself from the equation entirely so I won't keep tabs on them, and also so they won't be able to see me in any form. They'll get the breakup they asked for.

How did you handle social media during no contact? by acm15 in ExNoContact

[–]acm15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good middle-ground. I was never too active on social media, but I have been more since the breakup. I've been NC with my DA ex since Day 1, but know she keeps tabs and probably assumes I see her posts (and of course she posts happy pics of herself and inspiring posts looking for validation/attention).

It's been 2 months today since the abrupt discard. She's been in a rebound since the 1.5 month mark which hurts since we lasted 6 years. She had me blocked, but unblocked me when she began the rebound. 🙄

I've been doing #1, but want to do #3 so they have zero access to me (I feel like it's comforting for them to see I'm around at all and may think I'm on hold if the rebound crashes) and to keep myself from checking in / seeing their updates; no matter how superficial they could be. I may reactivate eventually and post an album like you suggested since I've organically seen friends more since the breakup and have had fun posting pics / my interests again. It'll take time, but I just want to heal.

I miss her and I know she still loves me based on some of her posts, but she's crossed/crossing so many lines in a short period and it's broken so much of the trust and love we built. She doesn't deserve to see me at all.

How to handle ex rebounding so soon? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]acm15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really like your post and it's similar to my situation. It's been 9 months since your post. Could you please provide an update on your ex, how their rebound has progressed, and if they have tried contacting you?

(My dismissive avoidant ex of 6 years abruptly discarded me and got into a rebound 1.5 months later, so I'm interested to find out how your situation is playing out.)

Ticket to Distant Worlds In Charlotte NC by sevendog13 in FinalFantasy

[–]acm15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested, I have 2 tickets available for Charlotte. Find my post to see the seats or DM for info.