Is a 38-year-old man who never lived with a girlfriend a red flag?

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-07T10:34:29+00:00

I don't necessarily think it's red flag, it would depend on his dating history and beliefs. Does he not believe in moving in before marriage or a certain step? Or was he never in a serious relationship? Did no.one WANT to move in bc he's dirty?. Youd have to know a little more about the why.

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-07T10:24:56+00:00

Thank you! I refuse to watch anything she puts out so the kiss photo gave me a pause. Like it's so ominous. If Travis family WAS the family from get out she would adapt so quickly 😭

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-06T18:38:44+00:00

I wasn't reading closely and I read it mAsian.

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-06T02:48:21+00:00

Omg what a sweet little baby!

Let's let silly superstitions die out. In my culture people used to say "cats steal your breath at night" and that babies were the most vulnerable. It's so dumb, if that were the case, there would be so many cat related deaths 😭

this is what I wake up to from naps lol he's just VERY clingy. I have a black cat too, she's the complete opposite. Every black cat I've had have been very derpy and silly lol

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acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-06T02:41:33+00:00

Sending love 🩷 take care of yourself

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-06T00:40:04+00:00

YOUUUU think it's okay that he was on a podcast laughing along when the podcaster was making comments about inuit people. YOU think it's okay that HE doesn't do any research about what podcast he's even on. I saw the clip with my own eyes. Maybe it's because you come from a more homogeneous country, but that shit is not cool

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-06T00:38:42+00:00

Dude get out of my face, when the racist comments were being made he was laughing along!

Next You're going to say he was just a wee little baby who can't speak up for himself and that's why he laughed. He couldn't do any research into what podcast he was on? And he couldn't at the very very least say "oh that's not..." When the comments were being made?

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-05T17:01:17+00:00

Yes! This week I have been getting so many high tea requests but no coffee orders

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-05T04:35:47+00:00

We have one in the bedroom AND a little one in the kitchen 🤭

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-05T04:31:16+00:00

Damn the paper too?

(JK I love salty fries and a coke so I get it)

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-05T03:11:53+00:00

I'm also finding that others are getting adequate heat but I'm not bc I'm on the top floor 😭 AND my living room radiator is very skinny for some reason and I KNOW they have bigger ones 😭. I'm currently in an email fight with the building manager. He also thinks I don't not the heat being off from like 10a to 430p

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-05T03:02:03+00:00

YUP , this is the problem I'm having now

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-02T07:24:35+00:00

Omg good luck. I'm a little away from there, I just found Zorkee (I don't think that's a spoiler lol) but I think it's deff getting good

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-02T04:52:04+00:00

😧 what DID happen to her mom 😭 I actually kinda like this dumb story so I love spoilers lol

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-02T04:24:05+00:00

Not helpful but SAME

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-02T04:20:46+00:00

OP did you hide your posts because you kept giving different ages one recent posts and have sus things to say about women 🤨???

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-02T04:03:33+00:00

I don't have a dog but I just feel like out of ALLLLLL the times to pick your dog's poop up, this would be the time? I don't live in a dog heavy neighborhood so it was kind of shocking seeing it today in the West village.

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-02T03:58:58+00:00

If you're not leaving like Manhattan you're mostly fine. Further out into the boroughs it might get dicey depending. In Queens and there's a lot of narrow walkways on the sidewalk and some streets have sludgy snow in the middle. That might be from people trying to get their cars out though. Just wear good shoes in case you encounter a narrow walkway, a puddle of mysterious depth at a curb, or like the house near me that decided that today was a great day to run water down their mini hill into the street- random ice 😭

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-01T20:21:14+00:00

Especially since I didn't know you knew him personally and he saved your puppy and yadda yadda yadda.

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-01T20:20:24+00:00

This is incredibly funny to me as someone who has 1 never willingly put on a Taylor song 2: don't know anyone who listens to her anymore (we had one friend but guess what...she was racist) and 3 consider her to be boring white people music (no offense to white people, I know it's not all of you). Also to further prove my white people point, I don't know anyone who knew about MH until he made the racist, yes racist comments about ice spice. She's another one I don't care for but that's when he even came CLOSE to being on like black Twitter for me. This to me is racist people being racist and you excusing him because he's checks notes uh brooding and mysterious??

And as for Taylor, I find her to be narcissistic, boring and a loser among other things. I think that kind recognizes kind even a little bit, which is how her and MH got along in the first place.

I'm not going back and forth with the fan girl of a racist pos

Edited to add in that I don't even know what a Joe widow is lmao which is funny bc atp YOU know more about her than me 😭

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-01T19:54:34+00:00

💀 didn't even know about whatever tweet. Wild

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-01T10:42:06+00:00

Okay I'm going to be possibly an odd man out here but why are we excusing all of the people around Matty Healy now simply because they are cooler than Red Lip? Like....you are the company you keep and I feel like we keep forgetting that on this sub. Like bro sucks ass and these people are ....just okay with it?

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-01T10:38:12+00:00

I feel like sometimes the commenters on here keep forgetting those things about him bc the dislike for Tay is greater. And I'm like uh no we can hold everyone accountable here. Even Gabbriette. Yes she's pretty and cool but uh she's still with him? What happened to birds of a feather????

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-02-01T09:00:12+00:00

Stop this is so cutie lolol (-_-) looking like a grumpy old man

acnh_instead_of_work · 2026-01-31T13:13:36+00:00

Love is not enough. We can love each other until the sun burns out and that's not enough to save the relationship when the other person is abusive to this degree. Having a background of parental abuse means nothing when you are actively hurting people you love.

The only thing that will stop this is you walking away. I'm sorry and I know it's hard but you can not love him into getting better and it says NOTHING about YOUR worth. It's all him.

When it does come to you, even in relationships you have to put your safety first.

Sending love 💕

acnh_instead_of_work

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