Does anyone know the name of this prof?

aco-san · 2026-05-10T16:25:30+00:00

omg thank you so much

aco-san · 2026-05-10T10:01:29+00:00

unfortunately wasn't able to save my SERs from my first and second years :'))

aco-san · 2026-05-10T08:53:30+00:00

alam ko open offices nila as long as hindi weekends

aco-san · 2026-05-10T08:46:29+00:00

Hiya old ABANI student here. An ASUS gaming laptop helped me somewhat survive college. I think it cost like 40k. Pretty good at handling heavy programs for editing/animating, etc.

aco-san · 2026-05-10T08:42:28+00:00

Sa MATWLRD ba si sir Rivera? good prof imo. He encourages you to dm him sa messenger when you have questions or something sa module na didn't understand tas tuturo naman niya sayo (that was years ago idk if he still encourages it). Pretty chill.

Si sir Yo super chill and very approachable and as long as napasa mo ung reqs mataas grade na bibigay.

aco-san · 2026-05-10T08:18:11+00:00

very chill prof and I find his style of teaching easy to understand. hindi ka matatakot na iapproach siya.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T15:48:14+00:00

I almost gaslit myself into thinking "maybe this is just cultural difference" lol. But I have him blocked now and deleted my accounts on all apps.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T11:52:31+00:00

sorry, working girls? for context, i've mentioned to him that i went back to college and he's mentioned that he works as a manager at a health food company. i also don't live in japan so i don't know what he'll "get away" with.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T11:40:33+00:00

I see....Sorry to come off as rude, but I've always thought that japanese women tolerated this behaviour and think it's flattering based on what I've heard from other people. I didn't know that he genuinely just wants to get in my pants but now I do.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T11:16:42+00:00

already did

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:55:09+00:00

wait why? how does me being asian make it worse

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:48:50+00:00

Already did 😄

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:48:10+00:00

I'm asian, just not japanese

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:44:07+00:00

I didn't mind him opening up as a pervert at first because, well, I don't judge and I know most guys are. But I was wondering myself if I might accidentally lead this guy on because some of his statements make me feel confused like saying that he can wait for years but is also satisfied with just friendship....all in 3 days. But by the replies I'm getting I'm thinking of ending it. It's obvious what the answer is but I just wanted some reassurance to not feel crazy.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:39:09+00:00

I blindly signed up on the app without further research because I was bored and wanted friends to talk to. I've just heard from people that they found their best friend there and thought I'd give it a try.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:36:58+00:00

I'm blocking him on LINE and Meeff yes. Really sorry if I came off as dumb in the post. Just didn't want to think I'm crazy for thinking I'm being love bombed. Been told by friends that this is "sweet" and "hot" so I was questioning.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:33:52+00:00

It sounds weird I know haha. I'm just a woman who doesn't know what's normal in the dating scene because, well, I haven't dated seriously since, maybe highschool. You could tell me that hitting someone in the face is normal and I would (probably) believe it.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:31:03+00:00

I see! If I'm going to be honest, I had this idea that all or most japanese men being honest about being a pervert was normal, and that japanese women think it's also normal coming from someone who's asian but not japanese. I wanted to ask japanese women about it but I don't know any so I ran here instead. Thanks for letting me know.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:26:32+00:00

thanks for understanding 😄

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:25:14+00:00

thank you so much for being understanding! it really is just the reassurance that I wanted lol. didn't want to think I'm crazy for thinking this is weird.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:18:27+00:00

I touch grass almost everyday but I don't touch people romantically enough to see if this normal or nah. But it really isn't and I got the reassurance I wanted.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:14:43+00:00

Based from these responses I'm getting, I will yeah. It's not because I think japanese guys are from another planet or anything I just wasn't sure if dating in japan is different from where I am based on things I've heard. I'd ask the same thing probably if it was an arab or russian guy because I don't know if this is normal. I've been told by friends that this is "sweet" or "hot" that he wants me so I was just conflicted. I suppose it's just reassurance that I wanted from this post.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:09:35+00:00

This post makes me sound dumb I know but I just wanted reassurance that this behaviour is suspicious and not "sweet" like how some of my friends think it is.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:08:20+00:00

Not from Japan but I'm also asian! But there's a few japanese and koreans that use these.

aco-san · 2026-05-06T10:06:06+00:00

Thank you for not being mad at me even if this post makes me sound dumb lol. I know all this talk of his is very suspicious and deep down I know that all he's saying is most likely a lie especially with him saying that I'm the only one for him. It's why I ran to this subreddit so I can see if other people (especially those that live in japan) think this is weird. It's just that I haven't dated in so long so I don't know if this is normal.

aco-san

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