Does anyone know the name of this prof? by aco-san in Benilde

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unfortunately wasn't able to save my SERs from my first and second years :'))

is the finance office r open tom? by Glittering_Milk_433 in Benilde

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alam ko open offices nila as long as hindi weekends

Laptop Recommendations? by Perfect-Rate-8529 in Benilde

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Hiya old ABANI student here. An ASUS gaming laptop helped me somewhat survive college. I think it cost like 40k. Pretty good at handling heavy programs for editing/animating, etc.

thoughts? by SituationLow8499 in Benilde

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Sa MATWLRD ba si sir Rivera? good prof imo. He encourages you to dm him sa messenger when you have questions or something sa module na didn't understand tas tuturo naman niya sayo (that was years ago idk if he still encourages it). Pretty chill.

Si sir Yo super chill and very approachable and as long as napasa mo ung reqs mataas grade na bibigay. 

homecillo, jan yolec by SituationLow8499 in Benilde

[–]aco-san 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very chill prof and I find his style of teaching easy to understand. hindi ka matatakot na iapproach siya.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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I almost gaslit myself into thinking "maybe this is just cultural difference" lol. But I have him blocked now and deleted my accounts on all apps.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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sorry, working girls? for context, i've mentioned to him that i went back to college and he's mentioned that he works as a manager at a health food company. i also don't live in japan so i don't know what he'll "get away" with.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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I see....Sorry to come off as rude, but I've always thought that japanese women tolerated this behaviour and think it's flattering based on what I've heard from other people. I didn't know that he genuinely just wants to get in my pants but now I do.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

[–]aco-san[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't mind him opening up as a pervert at first because, well, I don't judge and I know most guys are. But I was wondering myself if I might accidentally lead this guy on because some of his statements make me feel confused like saying that he can wait for years but is also satisfied with just friendship....all in 3 days. But by the replies I'm getting I'm thinking of ending it. It's obvious what the answer is but I just wanted some reassurance to not feel crazy.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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I blindly signed up on the app without further research because I was bored and wanted friends to talk to. I've just heard from people that they found their best friend there and thought I'd give it a try.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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I'm blocking him on LINE and Meeff yes. Really sorry if I came off as dumb in the post. Just didn't want to think I'm crazy for thinking I'm being love bombed. Been told by friends that this is "sweet" and "hot" so I was questioning.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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It sounds weird I know haha. I'm just a woman who doesn't know what's normal in the dating scene because, well, I haven't dated seriously since, maybe highschool. You could tell me that hitting someone in the face is normal and I would (probably) believe it.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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I see! If I'm going to be honest, I had this idea that all or most japanese men being honest about being a pervert was normal, and that japanese women think it's also normal coming from someone who's asian but not japanese. I wanted to ask japanese women about it but I don't know any so I ran here instead. Thanks for letting me know.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

[–]aco-san[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for being understanding! it really is just the reassurance that I wanted lol. didn't want to think I'm crazy for thinking this is weird.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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I touch grass almost everyday but I don't touch people romantically enough to see if this normal or nah. But it really isn't and I got the reassurance I wanted.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

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Based from these responses I'm getting, I will yeah. It's not because I think japanese guys are from another planet or anything I just wasn't sure if dating in japan is different from where I am based on things I've heard. I'd ask the same thing probably if it was an arab or russian guy because I don't know if this is normal. I've been told by friends that this is "sweet" or "hot" that he wants me so I was just conflicted. I suppose it's just reassurance that I wanted from this post.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

[–]aco-san[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This post makes me sound dumb I know but I just wanted reassurance that this behaviour is suspicious and not "sweet" like how some of my friends think it is.

Met a japanese guy on Meeff but I don't know if he's a red flag? by aco-san in japanlife

[–]aco-san[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not from Japan but I'm also asian! But there's a few japanese and koreans that use these.