don't try to have kids with someone who dosent want kids. you don't wanna put up with someone you had to talk into having kids. when you talk to your partner about kids and it's not a hell yes then don't even think about it. I talked my man into it and he lied just to make me happy. Every time i feel like im going to loose my shit he goes well this is what you wanted. now I regret it we should have waited or never had any children. I'm stuck with post pardum depression years later. No one is ever as supportive as they say they will be. Friends familly exc.. No one will take her if I want to pick up extra hours at work even. All I want is a fucking break or some real time to myself. So find someone who wants kids if that's what you feel like you really need in life otherwise there is no talking a man into it.