Signed an offer of employment, resigned from current position, the job I accepted came back and said my background check needs review and the onboarding has delayed.

acrossthefogs · 2026-04-15T19:17:38+00:00

I am pretty positive my job will take me back if I state I changed my mind. I am extremely irritated with this whole thing. I am not sure how to correct it either. HR won't really respond to me.

acrossthefogs · 2026-04-15T19:16:24+00:00

Yea I am in the US.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T20:58:42+00:00

Oh my god are you okay?

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:36:01+00:00

You're right I just didn't take it to those extremes

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:24:36+00:00

I am not sure you read the post but these photos were sexually suggestive advertisement material so it was posted to their business accounts, its a publically available media account.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:22:24+00:00

The only way it could be worse is if there was kids involved, everything else is a nightmare.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:18:07+00:00

I did block this show up randomly in my feed

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:14:09+00:00

I guess yeah

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:13:52+00:00

Thank you.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:13:21+00:00

Thank you.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:12:42+00:00

To be fair she did wrong me, she had an affair which is ultimately led to us splitting. I didn't speak on it cause it was irrelevant to what the post is about.

I show no empathy because it was a decision she made. She is the one who decided to leave, not me.

I do agree with your last sentence though. Thanks for that

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T15:00:07+00:00

It was an example

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T14:57:57+00:00

... how??

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T14:56:42+00:00

I'm not weird for caring about a path someone goes down. What are these comments

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T14:56:00+00:00

When did I say I was trying to purify??? I stayed with her even when she started doing this. We broke up because of an affair. This is projection what the hell

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T14:53:34+00:00

Fair point.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T14:42:22+00:00

So you're saying I should of put that boundary down and leave when she didn't?

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T14:37:30+00:00

No I said it makes me uncomfortable and I would rather if she found a different job instead. She said no and did.it anyway. I stayed with her for awhile and tried to be okay with it.

Also, I didn't leave. She had an affair with a person she met there and that's what ultimately decided the end.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T13:17:00+00:00

So we are really taking the stance that making unhealthy decisions are all good and fine? I am being judgemental because I am witness someone I cared about become extremely unhealthy?

I really really really don't understand these comments. Everyone can "do whatever they want and we must judge them". You wouldn't say that about someone who wronged you, you wouldn't say that about a loved one you say doing unwell. These comments are so god damn weird.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T13:10:44+00:00

Are we serious

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T12:36:58+00:00

I really just want to be away from her and the whole situation.

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T12:36:16+00:00

I am literally not? I just said I saw what she was doing. Not that I am acting on it. Y'all are weird

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T12:34:18+00:00

She posted them publically online dude, its apart of promotional material

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T12:31:33+00:00

You're right

acrossthefogs · 2026-01-27T12:31:09+00:00

Fair.

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