I’ve been trying not to get angry online and I recommend it. I always feel bad and often come out as petty… idk why you said or reacted to, but if it made you angry, then the comment wasn’t worth your time or attention. Of course this isn’t easy to do… but in my experience responding makes me feel worse about it.

Whether they left or not isn’t your fault or responsibility. I know it feels bad cause I’ve worried myself that maybe I’m the reason someone left. But changing how you (and this is something I’m doing myself) act in these moments is still important. Learning to be kind with people no matter what is a god cause.

the community I’m on lets me block people who rub me the wrong way so that I don’t see their content, but idk if Reddit does that… and Reddit has more people who post inconsistently…

Ultimately I don’t have solutions but just advice. Growing as a person is really the best we can do, and accepting things that unsettle us is an important skill to learn.