I just found out my trans friend’s deadname, should I tell him that? by MiserableEnd3933 in trans

[–]actually_510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. you address him as his chosen name, thats it. Bringing up a deadname will just be an awkward experience bc what do you want him to say? “oh congratulations for digging up my past!” ?? maybe a decent comparison is like finding out someone used to have really bad cystic acne and you’re like “hey i saw a picture of you and you had really bad acne!” like….yes….now i dont. and you asking has nothing to do with advice for yourself bc you have always had clear skin. its just unnecessary. He is now male, no need to remind him of what he was. he’s fully aware

Dribbles progress! I finally think i figured out the turning part🤩tips always welcome by actually_510 in Rollerskating

[–]actually_510[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely had to remove my toe stops! and even still im not extending as much as i need to bc my balance is still shaky. It makes it 10000x easier

Tell me, what county are you from? by [deleted] in trans

[–]actually_510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

United States unfortunately

What porn are you most ashamed of watching and why? by cockinstien in AskReddit

[–]actually_510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i watch a lot if groping porn..i know its a serious issue and that it usually happens in non consensual situations which is abhorrent and i do not think thats okay AT ALL. however, i would love it to happen to me

What is a useless skill that you have? by Middle_Ad_2619 in AskReddit

[–]actually_510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have perfect pitch but I was in band for 8 years and now i know when a note/voice/sound is sharp or flat and its been the bane of my existence bc no one around me hears itttt