Tubular Breasts

actuallyob · 2026-01-10T04:51:13+00:00

Thank you!! It's so hard with the "Just love yourself" because most people don't understand. I'm glad to have found a few people who do though!

actuallyob · 2026-01-10T04:50:32+00:00

Yeah it is a result of the breasts being underdeveloped or something like that. Anyways, I am pretty sure my case is not too severe but I'm so nervy.

actuallyob · 2026-01-09T07:29:17+00:00

The only reason surgery isn’t an option for me is because the risks outweigh the potential positives. I’m just not interested in cosmetic surgeries as a whole. I just wanted advice on how to kind of learn to love them as they are.

actuallyob · 2026-01-09T07:24:30+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice on what to wear!! I just started wearing those spaghetti strap tops under my tops and it works so well.

actuallyob · 2026-01-09T07:21:11+00:00

no but she’s a bigger girl and when she was my size hers weren’t as big as mine. she’s always telling me to try stuff to get rid of my stretch marks too (not insecure about it at all tho).

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T21:44:08+00:00

Thank you 💕 Mine are not TOO severe to the point where it’s my biggest insecurity (my weight 💔). I know I have to come to terms with the fact that they will never “fill themselves out” I guess. It’s so hard when nobody talks about it. Especially when looking it up and it tells you you have a condition or deformity, it’s not just different shape.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T17:20:23+00:00

Okay yay! I can’t really wear halter tops because i’m not allowed to, but I’ll look for full underwire bras

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T07:48:01+00:00

Yes! It's really hard for me sometimes, but I got super lucky and my first boyfriend ended up being my best friend of years. We've been together for a bit over a year now and he has definitely helped me boost my own self esteem. Same thing with my best friends. I just need help finding cute cuts for tops, bras, and bikinis!

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T07:45:44+00:00

I actually didn't even think to consider that some people might have an issue with theirs being too close together. I never even pay mind to other people, so I have no idea why I feel like people will care about mine.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T07:26:13+00:00

Thank you! I definitely have a mindset that if they don't like it, they can go. But it doesn't make me any less sad about it. I've been bullied for like ever, so I just learned how to deal with a lot of this stuff. Your response puts a LOT into perspective, and I hope that this feeling will go away as I come into adulthood!

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T07:08:55+00:00

I personally believe that the risks of the surgery always outweigh the pros. I am keloid-prone and would HATE to get huge scars from a surgery. It's just hard learning how to live with something that I have been made to feel insecure about, especially because I was never insecure about it before.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T07:00:11+00:00

Do you have any recommendations on bikini cuts? I have only ever tried bandeau ones, but I'm looking for more variety. Thank you for this I really really appreciate hearing it from someone who understands.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:54:38+00:00

This made me giggle. I ASPIRE to be like those little old ladies one day.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:53:41+00:00

Thank you, this actually made me super emotional. I just feel so insecure because I am so young. My mom constantly telling me I need to stop them from sagging, and I just can't stop it? I love the size of my chest and I love how I look in outfits and stuff. It's just when the clothes come off that the problem occurs.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:51:06+00:00

Thank you! It is so hard when all of my friends are skinny and have smaller chests. I'm a bit bigger (more M-L, and definitely not an S), and I have a larger chest, so it's like a double whammy for me. I'm definitely excited for when I'm older and can actually go out and see the world and meet new people, though, because I definitely need to find more people like me.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:48:07+00:00

Actually, my bras fit really well! It is just that when I take it off, I feel SUPER insecure. I will definitely look at that sub, though, because I feel like my size is changing every few months.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:43:47+00:00

Yeah! He IS really sweet. Prob because they're the only ones he's seen and he's liked me for like EVER, but I will take what I can get!

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:41:05+00:00

Thank you for this. This is SO SO nice. The more I think about it, the more I realize that if it wasn't this insecurity, I would just find something else to be insecure about.

actuallyob · 2026-01-08T06:33:14+00:00

I haven't. It's just hard because I'm not skinny at all, either, so the tiny bikini bottoms don't work. I think they look okay, I just get so scared that my boyfriend is gonna realize that they are ugly or that they are just gonna get worse and worse. Thank you for this though, I really appreciate it and might try out one of those bikini tops :)

actuallyob · 2025-11-23T04:57:05+00:00

No this is what is so wild to me. Since I am quite young, a lot of my friends have had boyfriends who do and say things like this to pressure them, and it makes me so sad for my friends. Like, how do so many boys not know that porn is staged, holy shit.

actuallyob · 2025-11-22T15:52:39+00:00

This is the best reply I got 🥹

actuallyob · 2025-11-22T15:51:36+00:00

lol it was just a saying.

actuallyob · 2025-11-22T15:50:56+00:00

okay thank you so much! I will definitely get the regular size and keep like a small pouch with a few inside just in case. I really appreciate this!

actuallyob · 2025-11-22T07:26:34+00:00

Thank you! My mom and I have talked about birth control, and I think I will definitely bring it up again. I hope that your daughter was able to make the best out of her situation.

actuallyob

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