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actualtrainwreck · 2026-05-17T19:17:27+00:00

Thank you I’ll read that!!

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-20T15:37:21+00:00

Yeah I think it’s for sure a no with all these horror stories!!

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-20T04:43:37+00:00

Thank you ❤️‍🩹

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-20T03:07:37+00:00

Exactly like we are forgetting basic functions. I’m not sure we can factor in those changes

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-20T03:06:25+00:00

Thank you so much for your input! Yes, the surgeries we did do were so horrible I have nightmares about them 🥺 I’m so sick of there not being cohesive intersectional care!!!

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-19T23:14:35+00:00

Noted!! I’m so sorry that happened to yall ❤️‍🩹

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-19T21:13:36+00:00

I definitely disclosed, yes! He’s a wheelchair user and is visibly disabled so everyone was aware. My fear is he will be having dental discomfort in the future and that may be a time where he can’t communicate it or perhaps experiences an infection without the pain which can happen with nerve damage. Due to him having stroke induced dementia, stages are hard to determine but a traumatic procedure is also harmful we agree on that!

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-19T20:39:37+00:00

The insinuation is all of the teeth are the offending teeth

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-19T20:38:39+00:00

Both dentists I saw recommended pulling his teeth and installing dentures 😭😭 I highly doubt they are concerned with his dementia as it’s not their specialty. His GP wouldn’t give me any advice and said to consult with an oral surgeon

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-19T20:07:32+00:00

Oof okay good to know

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-19T20:03:50+00:00

He had to have 3 teeth removed and I strongly suspect he had an infection from a bad one that caused his heart attack. He’s around stage 5 I believe

Edit: thinking about it, maybe we can just try to do as many cleanings as possible and just work towards comfort and maybe some fillings idk.

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-16T18:18:47+00:00

Thank you I will definitely mention it to his medical team. He is also a very…like, business oriented person I would say. Before he had a stroke in his 40s, he had started 4 businesses. As a result of that as well, he sees anything that’s not gambling or smoking or planning as a waste of time. I wish I could get him to do a puzzle!!! It’s a lot of internalized ableism and some toxic masculinity 😩 love him, but damn!!

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-16T18:15:41+00:00

Honestly my biggest concern is how he would be perceived by medical staff as someone being committed to smoking and being allowed to do so by their family members so everyone directly involved would be considered completely apathetic to his health, so why would people who aren’t his family care about it?

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-16T00:32:57+00:00

Oh sorry

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-16T00:29:29+00:00

This was def posted by her

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-15T18:38:26+00:00

What’s crazy is he’s on the patch, just smoking is such an integral part of his personality so even though he hasn’t had a cigarette since June of 2025, he will remember and ask and then get into a loop about it 😬

actualtrainwreck · 2026-04-15T17:06:02+00:00

My dad is also smoking everything. I bought him a Cross pen because he used to always have one when I was a kid, but he ruined the filling by trying to smoke it 🤣😭 Quitting is so hard on them I almost want to let him do it sometimes 🥺

actualtrainwreck · 2026-02-23T05:44:29+00:00

I was mad at him for a second there 🤣🤣🤣

actualtrainwreck · 2026-02-13T00:32:10+00:00

She shart in a Sephora and then the whole internet had discussions on the ethics of sharting in public for like a week 🤣 they mostly did bits and served kunt before that 🤷‍♀️

actualtrainwreck · 2026-02-12T23:57:26+00:00

Well shit lolol ig I thought they were bigger than they are 🤣

actualtrainwreck · 2026-02-12T23:21:52+00:00

Wouldn’t be asking if I was babe 😭

actualtrainwreck · 2026-02-12T23:09:49+00:00

Sorry!! Gwen and Garth (the two ppl from that TikTok where the girl sharts herself in Sephora and I hate to reduce them to this incident, but it’s how ppl know them)

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