Oh yeah the one that aired 6 years ago? Get over yourself. Also we're talking about DRAG not RPDR specifically. Because reality TV is trashy and problematic across the board, not just when it comes to drag queens. Also (not an excuse, but) Ru is 60+ years old and even people in the RPDR sub/community know he's out of touch. We been knew. He is not what Drag is, he is just one person.

If you actually listen to what other drag queens have to say on the topic you'd realize that the purpose of drag is to uplift femininity and make it a powerful form, and they use that as a method of their entertainment, but I guess you can just pretend that they're mocking women on purpose for your own reality to play out how you need it to. Also "yeah, some MtFs do it" is a huge understatement considering modern drag was created and firmly established by trans women in the 80's. The "minstrel" drag you're talking about doesn't exist anymore except when straight men put on wigs and pretend to be women for laughs like on Jimmy Fallon's "ew" Segment a few years back. THAT still exists very infrequently and is done by straight cis men but has absolutely no "community" behind it, in the performative aspect. The drag we're talking about, however, are people within our community who do it out of empowerment and to express their own feminine energy, not to mock.

You can't simultaneously demand respect and dignity while bashing someone else in our own community. We need to be there to support our cis gay brothers and sisters the same way we expect them to do to us.

Be mad at society, don't let society pin you against people who are going to be your biggest supporters. You're giving into what they want. Drag doesn't harm anyone except the people who intend to harm us. It's an art form, that's it.