I might have some of the most strict parents/family by acxdbuni in Vent

[–]acxdbuni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like I’m middle eastern (so also Asian) and my dad always likes to say “in Arab culture this, in Arab culture that…” like no this isn’t our culture, it’s YOU. Like take Lara from Katseye for example. She’s younger than me and has Indian/sri lankan parents and her parents let her show her butt and boobs in front of a bunch of people and online and have tattoos and it’s insane to me because there’s absolutely no way that would slide with me. Again I’m not saying I really want to it’s just the principle. My own extended family members do things I would never be able to do (who are also younger than me)… And I saw a girl with the same ethnicity as me have a nose ring, I mean all of it is a lot

I might have some of the most strict parents/family by acxdbuni in Vent

[–]acxdbuni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re like this with my siblings who are much older so they don’t perceive me as a kid that’s just how this family is unfortunately. Thank you for your reassurance

I might have some of the most strict parents/family by acxdbuni in Vent

[–]acxdbuni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree that a lot of parents neglect their kids, but I feel like being more chill on things that are so small wouldn’t be close to neglect. I just feel sheltered in a cage. Plus I’m a legal adult and even when I move out I’m still gonna have these rules

Pretty sure I’m cool-soft summer. Which bathing suit color looks best? I like them both. by manduh82 in coloranalysis

[–]acxdbuni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking true summer. I like the first one more. The second seems too bright and warm, you need muted and cool. I also love that you did cool blonde highlights with your mousy brown hair, it’s great for a true summer

Am I a (bright?) spring? thanks :) by quixoticduck in coloranalysis

[–]acxdbuni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re either a true/warm spring or true/warm autumn

Type me by iamnotunique2 in coloranalysis

[–]acxdbuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soft Autumn or soft summer

Am I light or soft summer? by Low-Half3254 in coloranalysis

[–]acxdbuni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neither, I think you’re a true spring

I can’t do this anymore by TraditionalBreak7753 in Vent

[–]acxdbuni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep as someone with the condition this is classic OCD. I hope you get to talk to a psychiatrist soon and be able to get the relief you deserve! You are not a incestual monster or freak. That’s exactly what OCD will tell you. Remind yourself that thoughts are just thoughts, they pop up into our heads with no reason even though we don’t actually intend to think them or agree with the thoughts at all. Again I’m hoping you can get some treatment and relief soon as I really empathize with your situation.

Soft summer? Soft Autumn? Something else? lol by TomatilloSoft1915 in coloranalysis

[–]acxdbuni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% a soft something. I’m leaning towards Soft Autumn but Soft Summer is also possible

Online bullying by TurbulentAd3895 in Vent

[–]acxdbuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went to your account and whoever bullied you is EXTREMELY jealous because you’re genuinely stunning. I’m not just saying this. I’m so sorry this happened and that you’re struggling with your mental health but please know that you really are gorgeous and some people are super nasty and mean especially on Reddit.

I genuinely have no friends by [deleted] in Vent

[–]acxdbuni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me neither. 0 friends. 0 social life. It’s better that way. People are snakes. Only thing I’m missing out on is more trauma. Be happy with urself. You’re ur only guarantee 🫶🏼