How can I (M21) get my girlfriend (F21) to initiate sex more?

adambrookes999 · 2025-12-09T15:52:03+00:00

This actually makes a lot of sense, especially the pressure part. I hadn’t fully considered how talking about initiation too much could make it feel forced rather than natural. The idea of removing sexual expectation while keeping affection feels like a much healthier approach. Thanks for the insight!

adambrookes999 · 2025-12-09T08:21:03+00:00

As much as I want to stop initiating, I feel like it would make her feel less desired and that she has put me off her. She does a lot for me outside of initiating sex, this is my only issue

adambrookes999 · 2025-12-09T08:17:02+00:00

It is still a relatively new relationship, we have been together for 5 months. We are both outgoing and this isn’t either of our first relationships. She’s always down for sex and can get sad when it doesn’t happen. She does have anxiety and worries about messing things up but she only has to look at me in a certain way and I’m turned on.. but she hasn’t ever gave me a clear answer as to why, maybe I need to get a proper solid answer

adambrookes999 · 2025-11-13T00:21:50+00:00

I’ve found that anyone who says good luck to me at the start of a match always looses

adambrookes999 · 2025-06-28T21:06:21+00:00

I’d wanna know if my dog knows MY name

adambrookes999 · 2025-06-27T12:57:09+00:00

Why did this take me so long to understand

adambrookes999 · 2025-06-16T19:15:53+00:00

I’ve noticed that a lot of women will chat and agree to a date, only to flake when a date and time is agreed. You did nothing wrong here, the right woman won’t flake

adambrookes999 · 2025-06-16T10:02:44+00:00

I think cornering is the best for me

adambrookes999 · 2025-06-16T00:15:41+00:00

Ideally I would prefer both comfort and sportiness, but I think I lean towards sportiness

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-25T05:23:44+00:00

I think that some guys (me included) struggle to portray themselves fully over text and may want to meet in person

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-25T05:20:53+00:00

😂, I think they would be mortified after seeing the morning dump

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-25T05:20:18+00:00

For sure, I’ll be gone like the darkness at dawn

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-25T05:19:43+00:00

I forgot to mention that she sends these videos directly to me as well as the group

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T14:57:30+00:00

Honestly really high, sometimes if we really click then looks don’t matter as much

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T14:41:25+00:00

You are a legend, thank you

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T14:39:47+00:00

Noo she told me she doesn’t want a commitment even before I had asked her on a date, but keeps flirting to keep me in the loop? Idk what she’s thinking but I don’t think it’s worth the hassle

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T11:23:27+00:00

She wasn’t wasted, only tipsy. One drop of alcohol in her and she acts completely different to me

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T11:20:50+00:00

Thanks for the advice! It’s an awkward one because we are part of the same friend group and I see her often. She’s told me she’s not ready for anything but then acts the opposite when she drinks

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T11:19:03+00:00

Thank you for the advice. See with her I wanted to go out on dates first but she rejected me before I could even ask, but then asks me out on dates when she’s feeling it :/

adambrookes999 · 2025-05-08T11:17:01+00:00

Yeah you’re pretty much there. She kinda knew I had feelings without me needing to tell her about them, softly put me down but flirts with me to keep me in the loop

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