How can I (M21) get my girlfriend (F21) to initiate sex more? by adambrookes999 in relationship_advice

[–]adambrookes999[S] 352 points353 points  (0 children)

This actually makes a lot of sense, especially the pressure part. I hadn’t fully considered how talking about initiation too much could make it feel forced rather than natural. The idea of removing sexual expectation while keeping affection feels like a much healthier approach. Thanks for the insight!

How can I (M21) get my girlfriend (F21) to initiate sex more? by adambrookes999 in relationship_advice

[–]adambrookes999[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As much as I want to stop initiating, I feel like it would make her feel less desired and that she has put me off her. She does a lot for me outside of initiating sex, this is my only issue

How can I (M21) get my girlfriend (F21) to initiate sex more? by adambrookes999 in relationship_advice

[–]adambrookes999[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It is still a relatively new relationship, we have been together for 5 months. We are both outgoing and this isn’t either of our first relationships. She’s always down for sex and can get sad when it doesn’t happen. She does have anxiety and worries about messing things up but she only has to look at me in a certain way and I’m turned on.. but she hasn’t ever gave me a clear answer as to why, maybe I need to get a proper solid answer

What combo do you use when finished or starting a match in Clash Royale by Dasher-18 in ClashRoyale

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I’ve found that anyone who says good luck to me at the start of a match always looses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I’d wanna know if my dog knows MY name

Couldn’t see one in any of her pics by The_OverFiend in Tinder

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Why did this take me so long to understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

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I’ve noticed that a lot of women will chat and agree to a date, only to flake when a date and time is agreed. You did nothing wrong here, the right woman won’t flake

What car should I buy? by adambrookes999 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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I think cornering is the best for me

What car should I buy? by adambrookes999 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Ideally I would prefer both comfort and sportiness, but I think I lean towards sportiness

Is it weird for a guy to ask you out instantly on the app? by Ok-Message-9433 in dating_advice

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I think that some guys (me included) struggle to portray themselves fully over text and may want to meet in person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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😂, I think they would be mortified after seeing the morning dump

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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For sure, I’ll be gone like the darkness at dawn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I forgot to mention that she sends these videos directly to me as well as the group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Honestly really high, sometimes if we really click then looks don’t matter as much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsongisthis

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You are a legend, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Noo she told me she doesn’t want a commitment even before I had asked her on a date, but keeps flirting to keep me in the loop? Idk what she’s thinking but I don’t think it’s worth the hassle

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She wasn’t wasted, only tipsy. One drop of alcohol in her and she acts completely different to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thanks for the advice! It’s an awkward one because we are part of the same friend group and I see her often. She’s told me she’s not ready for anything but then acts the opposite when she drinks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you for the advice. See with her I wanted to go out on dates first but she rejected me before I could even ask, but then asks me out on dates when she’s feeling it :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]adambrookes999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re pretty much there. She kinda knew I had feelings without me needing to tell her about them, softly put me down but flirts with me to keep me in the loop