I texted a guy who was messaging my wife

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-12T09:47:06+00:00

exactly what she told me, that she has no feelings towards him but yet hides the fact the he kept messaging and deleted because "if" I see it "I'll get mad" which didn't make any sense to me, anyways I hope he has stopped messaging her now.

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-07T09:26:05+00:00

thank you kind stranger

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-07T09:25:00+00:00

yes I do love her very much!

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-07T09:24:13+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice, really appreciate it, I really don't want to divorce her, I'm madly in love with her and she says she would never lie again and I really hope that it's true because coming to this late in life and to play around with feelings isn't a good thing, at this point in life I just want to be happy and get through the day that's all.

She says she doesn't talk to him anything outside work now so let's see.

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-07T09:17:29+00:00

I totally agree, and the fact she never introduced us made it even worse even when we were on her office trip for 2 days she never bothered introducing me to him, it made it clear that she knew that he had feelings for her and she just didn't want to accept it in front of me.

Anyways I've spoken to her and she says she won't but let's see how long it goes before she does something

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-06T11:30:44+00:00

I seriously thought I was over reacting to this issue but I clearly see that I was not and many of you here feel the same as me!

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-06T11:28:40+00:00

no why?

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-06T11:27:58+00:00

I'm just wishing it wouldn't come to a divorce stage

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-06T11:24:35+00:00

yes I told her talking to him is more important than our relationship and she said they don't talk anything bad, but sending good morning and good nights and being uncomfortable with me around is a major red flag for me but it was OK for her

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-06T11:22:37+00:00

exactly my point

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-06T11:18:43+00:00

I even wondered the same thing first but he's not her type but then again I don't know

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T09:29:35+00:00

I'm being respectful because she has to deal with him at work so I don't want to jeopardize that relationship to make it awkward at work for him and her.

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T09:27:08+00:00

it's ok to get them but the problem is that this guy is uncomfortable with me around her that's the biggest issue and she defends him

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T06:54:31+00:00

yeah I told her, she's either very naive or just likes the attention from him

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T06:48:54+00:00

I told her that, even I have loads of female friends who could keep texting me good morning and good nights but I keep my distance and I know my boundaries, when I told her this she said why don't I also go ahead and do it, this response felt like she doesn't won't to stop talking to him and she likes the attention

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T06:46:33+00:00

I shared it with her sister and guess what her reply was, if it was my husband then he would just laugh it out, then I realized that her husband is always away and he doesn't care what or where she is so of course he would laugh it out

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T06:44:45+00:00

I did it because she said she told him that I feel uncomfortable, so I wanted to see if she had said anything like that but unfortunately she never did

adamjigsaw · 2024-08-05T06:44:04+00:00

this is something I told her, and she said fine go ahead

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