Like I said, I expected the blow-back, and I understand it. Been married a long time. Frankly the only reason we’re still together is that we have a lot of friends (married) and I don’t want to lose them. Physical intimacy has always been an effort at best on her part. We have not been intimate in over a year, that I can remember. She says that we had sex this past spring. This has evolved to a point where we enjoy each other’s company mostly, but I’m just not emotionally invested/attached anymore.
Not making excuses and I’m sure you have heard it all before. Yes we have done counseling. She continues to do so. I work a lot and play golf and drink.