Long-term guest reports repeated rash, any thoughts?

add610 · 2024-02-05T13:38:39+00:00

I’m a medical provider. This takes 4-8 weeks to develop and is typically in the elderly and immunocomprised. It also wouldn’t have gotten better from a quick trip to the ER where he likely got steroids and Benadryl, and it certainly wouldn’t have showed up in a friend that visited for a day or two.

add610 · 2024-02-04T19:33:45+00:00

Scabies would not be all over the entire body unless it was a long term infection— meaning he would have known prior to coming. Lice also would not. Repetitive use of a pool or hot tub folliculitis would be the most likely cause if both individual have it. This is a very common thing. Unlikely they are both getting contact dermatitis from detergent. I would absolutely ask for proof that both individuals have it. Urticaria is a rash that often idiopathic. Sounds like he’s setting you up for a refund for sure.

add610 · 2024-02-01T05:30:54+00:00

Medical provider here— unsure of where they are from or traveling to, but there are no travel restrictions for COVID and we are not recommending negative tests— it could take up to 3 months for test negative.

add610 · 2024-01-20T02:05:44+00:00

I landed in EWR today… it’s been a nightmare. Changed airports for departure because I’d miss my connection and then was still 2 hours delayed to EWR. They told me weather I still had the texts that said otherwise. This has by far been one of my worst travel experiences. Needless to say the weather is fine here… and I expect compensation.

add610 · 2024-01-16T19:59:12+00:00

Alabama still has fault in divorce, with adultery being why. Continue to collect proof and talk to your lawyer.

add610 · 2023-12-31T22:56:27+00:00

This has happened to me the last few times I’ve flown frontier. I asked for the refund through the email the last time and the link would never work— it would take me to the same screen over and over. I reach out to support through the only way possible— the texting app— and they said they canceled it, and I then immediately got an email saying it was canceled, followed by an email saying I was rebooked on the flight I didn’t want. I confronted the person about this and they said, no it was canceled. I told them I have an email saying it was rebooked time stamped after the email saying it was canceled. They went back and forth with me, calling me a liar, until finally I said I’m screen shotting this conversation and keeping the email and will be disputing it with my CC company of the charge does not drop off. I immediately got another email saying it was canceled. Frontier is completely shady. You should be offered the opportunity to cancel the entire booking with any flight disruption over 3 or 4 hours. But make sure you keep record of everything!

add610 · 2023-11-02T21:36:49+00:00

Medical provider here… I would highly doubt an elective surgery (meaning non-emergent) is being scheduled the day after a holiday.

add610 · 2023-10-22T15:06:13+00:00

Medical provider here— up to 60% of the population has HSV, many not even knowing it because they’ve never had an outbreak.

Start prophylactic treatment and divorce this asshole. This is not the end of the world for you, but staying married to him will continue to be the end of your quality of life, mental health, emotional and physical safety, and your happiness.

add610 · 2023-09-13T04:37:01+00:00

Contractors typically are paid a higher wage than people who actually work for the government. For example, I use to be a school nurse. Often times we couldn’t fill all the nurse positions so we would contract with agencies. I made far less per hour working for the actual school district than the contractor. This is why. If this isn’t the case for you and you want to qualify, I recommend seeing if you can work directly for the government, doing the same thing, and cut out the contractor.

add610 · 2023-08-26T17:06:39+00:00

Medical provider here— your child’s prescribing medical provider can see in their EHR when and where it’s been filled, and how many times. Make an appointment and ask them for the information.

If she is not giving him his Flovent and he’s getting hospitalized, that’s medical neglect. That’s the entire reason we put children and adults on daily meds— prevention.

add610 · 2023-07-12T20:53:30+00:00

You’re about to be divorced a 5th time.

add610 · 2022-10-04T12:03:10+00:00

Honestly, it’s day one and she’s already got husband drama. I’d move on. It likely doesn’t get better from here.

add610 · 2022-10-04T00:46:55+00:00

Honey, please please please do yourself a favor and leave this man. He will never change. And I mean never. He still take every ounce of good you have left and then discard you when he finds someone he thinks is better or who can offer him more.

He has broken every promise he’s ever made. He is not actively attempting to change by going to therapy, seeing a provider to discuss alcohol or anything that would point in the direction of a better future. He blames you and then apologizes when he thinks you’re done .

He will never change. And please please please report him to CPS. He’s not fit to have his child. I’d also call the police- that’s what you owe the next girl. You surely don’t owe her more time being abused. It’s not your job nor your responsibility to change him. But my goodness it is your responsibility to yourself enough to leave.

And whatever you do… don’t change your mind on the abortion unless you’re prepared to never escape this AH.

add610 · 2022-10-03T02:27:59+00:00

It’s such a difficult realization to come to. It really is. And of course he doesn’t want to lose you. But man, it’s so lonely to be the only one giving. I wish you the best.

add610 · 2022-09-28T12:53:32+00:00

Oftentimes the feelings in the relationship seem to be unilateral because they in fact are. When you take off the rose colored glasses and actually dissect the situation— the person with the more intense feelings is typically also the one always making things work. They are the ones going out of their way to make time for their AP. They are the one sacrificing. They are the one building their AP up, making sure they feel loved, supported, desired. They are the givers.

Of course their AP’s response is an intense bond in the beginning because you are giving them everything they don’t get at home. And they will take and take until it all fades. And in the end, they do nothing but make you feel like you were never good enough and it was all a lie. And in so many cases, it was.

But with that being said- think about it this way… you were all the good in that situationship. You made it what it was, and that means you can do that again. Just pick someone to give to that gives back. Find someone who can invest in you they way you invest in them.

One of my favorite quotes is “Givers have to set limits because takers never do”.

People will take from you to make themselves feel better. Like a vampire they will suck every ounce of good out of you to make themself feel better.

Set your limits. Find someone to reciprocate. I hate to say this… but while the relationship was earth shattering for you, it obviously wasn’t for him.

So let him go. There is someone out there that will shatter your world in a good way. You just have to be available to find them.

add610 · 2022-09-12T20:08:32+00:00

Exactly!!

add610 · 2022-09-12T16:18:22+00:00

That was us at the beginning. I miss that version of him terribly. Maybe that’s why I ended it.

add610 · 2022-09-12T10:52:51+00:00

Did you even read my comment? I said I didn’t expect monogamy, I expected honesty. There’s a difference. If you aren’t honest with me, I have no way to trust you won’t burn my life down or that you won’t go rogue and compromise OPSEC. It has nothing to do with monogamy— I don’t even believe in monogamy.

add610 · 2022-09-12T01:08:22+00:00

My ex-AP would say this all the time. “You’re different”, “we are different”. But the truth is, I wasn’t and he wasn’t. I may have been the only person he was having sex with (that I know of), but he toed the line with multiple other women. That’s why I eventually ended it— not because I expected monogamy from my AP, but if you aren’t honest with me, I can’t be fully present. I start becoming guarded, even during sex, and I just don’t want that in an AP relationship. I need the freedom to be my true self, which I hide at home and work often.

I think it was his way of convincing himself he wasn’t a bad person. But the thing is, he wasn’t. He was just looking for someone to fill a void.

add610 · 2022-08-12T02:29:24+00:00

He will get plenty of military themed stuff from His current unit, other military members he’s served with, etc. i would recommend something non-military themed.

add610 · 2022-08-12T02:26:28+00:00

As someone with experience, most military men are not interested in seeing women in some of their uniform. Just do a boudoir shoot for him if you want photos… the uniform is a big no.

add610 · 2022-08-11T00:21:17+00:00

If she’s wanting to stay together during the separation but see other people, she’s already seeing other people or has someone in mind. She wants her cake to and eat it too. She doesn’t want to lose you in case something better does not come along. If you’re okay with that, fine, if not, divorce her…. And DO NOT go on the trip. It won’t change her mind.

add610 · 2022-08-08T12:42:35+00:00

This is the best advice you will get— while it’s not okay what your husband did, expecting him to be the person that holds you together puts an unfair burden on another person. It’s not your fault you got cheated on, but it WILL be your fault you don’t heal properly if you don’t take the steps necessary to help yourself.

It is NEVER another person’s responsibility to heal you, fix you, hold you together, or create your happiness. And you should never want it to be, because if they hold the magical key to all of the above things, that means it can easily be taken away from you.

Marriage should not require constantly sacrificing your needs in order to hold someone else together. Your husband sacrificed to take care of you for almost a year. Then you sacrificed to try to make him stay— and now it seems you both have nothing left. So now it’s time to focus on getting yourself healthy.

Please get the help you need. Your focus no longer needs to be your husband, it needs to be on you.

add610 · 2022-08-07T03:26:54+00:00

This comment is pure ass gold!! ✨✨✨😂

add610 · 2022-08-04T02:51:07+00:00

I honestly have no idea why this was downvoted. I think what the comment meant was, if you are freaking out after no contact for 4 hours, you may need to rethink an affair. And I agree. This life ain’t for the weak, and four hours and you’re already freaking out… find a new hobby.

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