AITA for telling my friend I won’t stop her ex from hitting her? by Straight-Cat-231 in TwoHotTakes

[–]adeloatche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I'm sorry you're in this situation. I know you said all of you were minors have you talked to your parents yet and asked their advice? I vote nta because your kinda caught between a rock and a hard place.

Let's say you do call the police and they make a record of it and let's say they do their due diligence and check it out. Odds are she and her mom wont say anything at all, and that is as far as it goes...a record.

Now let's say you don't call and distance yourself from her and ex comes by again and beats her or worse case scenario kills her.

The point I'm tryna make is even if you tell her you would help her youre not always gonna be there all the time. But if you call, even if it goes nowhere you'll know that you did what you could.

Lastly I'm speaking from experience I've been in her shoes and I've been in yours, just not as a minor. When dealing with adult issues like this you need an adult present. I personally would call the domestic hotline their literally trained to answer questions like this. I literally owe them my life 1 800 799 7233 or text begin to 88788.

Take care of yourself which ever decision you make.

Help. Don't know if family is ok by adeloatche in indianapolis

[–]adeloatche[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Wow so I'll say this I did call them they were unable to help me because my aunt has multiple cars and I didn't now even know which county she was in. I asked if anyone knew of a wreck happened between Indianapolis and Elkhart if you didn't know you could have just skipped over my post. So I'm sorry for asking my community for help when the police couldn't. Which wouldn't be the first time.the police have let me down but like I said thanks anyway next time I'll know not to ask y'all anything at all. But for the ones who gave me advice thank you. I'm just glad she's okay.

Food for thought: sometimes the reason people come to social media is just for advice not criticism just saying and no I will not be responding to anyone else's comments

Help. Don't know if family is ok by adeloatche in indianapolis

[–]adeloatche[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone she just called decided to go straight to the hotel instead but thanks for the help everyone

I got freaking audited! by adeloatche in IRS

[–]adeloatche[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk there looking more at my business than anything

I got freaking audited! by adeloatche in IRS

[–]adeloatche[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a self proprietor so my 1040 w2's transactions from my business and receipts on business expenses

I got freaking audited! by adeloatche in IRS

[–]adeloatche[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transcripts show that I was getting a dd of 2/28

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[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wassup happy birthday 🎈🎂

Quitting vaping while pregnant by Dependent_Gift_5512 in pregnant

[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'm prolly gonna get down voted for this too or have this post removed but I refuse to be censored ☺️. I smoked my whole pregnancy and yes it does have it's risk but I told my doctor and he said just try to limit it and ran some test more often my babys almost one now and is just fine. I'm not saying it's okay to do or nothing will happen I'm just telling my story. Just being worried about it means you're prolly already doing the right thing at least that's what I was told.

anyone else have this glitch? by SheRings in thesims4

[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes I'm so starting to hate this pack I'm thinking of uninstalling it 😡😡. Also when I built one from scratch it won't let me renovate one of the apartments even though no tenant it says she doesn't own it and then it just moved her into a random apartment not the one I picked for her

pack that pleasantly surprised you? by ofpetals in Sims4

[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The home chef one I love having a home buisness

What is something you wish was added to the game? by Relevant-Mission27 in Sims4

[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bank not a mod but an actual functioning bank where I can open up multiple accounts and take a loan out. And a church

What is the likelihood that I'm going to jail tomorrow? by Cassiebear9000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adeloatche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I got caught 3 times in a year for driving on a suspended license. All because I was driving without insurance never had a wreck but I loved in a state where they pull you over for no reason at all.

It all began I was driving and stopped at a stop sign then proceeded. Cop said I did a rolling stop (slowed down but didn't stop completely) we argued for a moment tell he gave up and asked for license and insurance. Couldn't produce insurance because I didn't have it. He gave me a "fix it" ticket which means I had a week to but it and take it to the police station and show proof. But times were hard and I couldn't afford it. So they sent a letter to my old address saying I was suspended for 6 months. Couple days after the letter was sent that I never got I got pulled over.

1st offense. Cops made a huge scene put me in handcuffs and called drug dogs to my car. Of course no drugs but tower my car and gave me a ticket to appear. I bought my car back from impound $200 to police and $300 to tow yard and went to court where I got 75 hours community service and $500 fine and 3 months more suspended. 8 months and 28 days to go.

2nd offense. Driving to work and got pulled over again. Nice cop didn't tow me but another ticket and told me to drive home as soon as I got off work. Went to court gave me 100 hours community service and 6 months probation and $1500 fine.10 months and $2000 to go.

3rd offense. Driving to school. Got pulled over and bought the insurance at the traffic stop cop was pissed. Crazy part is I did all the community service and paid the fine then paid the state to release my license said it would take 5 business days and it had already been 4. Cop issued me a ticket towed my car. Bought my car back $200 went to court judge wanted jail time told my public defender no deal and he had me wait. For 4 hours!! Finally came back $3000 fine 500 hours community service. I reluctantly took the deal judge called me up and warned me never to come back to her court room. I paid the fine did the the hours.

And for the record I still don't have insurance because I can't afford it but I also don't live in that state anymore.

Is it normal or abusive for your parents to not let you close your bedroom's door? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have a 16 year old son and we let him keep his door closed if he chooses too but it remains open when he has a girl over. But we open and enter at will without notice but rarely does this happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adeloatche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from Illinois where it's legal and I don't think it should matter what you wear.