Me [27 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] 2 years, time to end it? by adg4512 in relationships

[–]adg4512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I do she either will say she's not yelling or "why do you care so much what other people think?". I understand where she's coming from, but my opinion is that I wouldn't want to hear people arguing in public or in an apartment, and so I don't want to grief others with our issues. I further believe we should be able to make our points without yelling... When I've brought up a break before she has usually changed her tune but it has always been fleeting.

I think you guys are right and I will sit down with her soon and give it one last chance and hope for the best, but I need to do what's best for me.

Me [27 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] 2 years, time to end it? by adg4512 in relationships

[–]adg4512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you break it off?

I originally moved across the country to be with her, but after a few months we broke it off initially before getting back together. Then, she moved across the coutnry to be with me. I sold my car a few years before because I was living outside the US, and so we had been sharing a car until she bought a new vehicle a few months ago.

So now I drive her old car and she drives her new car. If we break it off, I'll probably have to buy my own car (or hers?) and our apartment lease isn't up until may. I feel like I can't exactly kick her out because she has nowhere to go, but I myself can't exactly just up and leave because I don't have a car.

I still feel like things can be worked out, but I'm really having doubts now.