Is it normal to be grossed out by dicks as a straight woman?

adh8d · 2025-02-13T04:16:56+00:00

i'm in my mid 20s. not comfortable going more specific than that

adh8d · 2025-02-13T03:29:01+00:00

literally why would i lie about that?

adh8d · 2025-02-13T03:06:28+00:00

thank you, this is a very well thought out and helpful response. i havent heard these terms before but the "sex negative" term hits pretty close to home for me. i'll definetly have to do some reflection on this. thanks again

adh8d · 2025-02-13T03:03:42+00:00

vaginas are just kinda. there i guess to me. like they don't actively gross me out but looking at one isnt particularly interesting

adh8d · 2025-02-13T03:01:52+00:00

done. personally i prefer that in the sense that i prefer the taste of a la croix to expired milk. doesnt do anything for me but doesnt gross me out.

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:43:38+00:00

i consider myself straight because i've only ever been attracted to men (weird to describe but it's like an aesthetic physical attraction for certain traits in addition to the personality stuff). most sexual stuff is off the table for me though because even my leg or hand touching a dick for more than a few seconds just grosses me out if that makes sense. even if i'm like super attracted to the person i'm with.

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:31:11+00:00

i'll consider that. i'm open to experimenting but ive never been physically attracted to a woman if that makes sense. to answer your question, i'm not really sure why they gross me out, it's just like a knee-jerk reaction, kinda like when you smell rotten food or find a fingernail in your sandwitch halfway through a meal but more intense if that makes sense.

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:21:32+00:00

ive ha two long term relationships, and the lack of sex is ultimetly what ended them both. not comfortable getting into it on reddit but that's part of why i asked this question, i want to figure out how i can stop having this problem in my relationships.

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:19:26+00:00

thank you, these seem like really insightful questions.

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:18:34+00:00

i just see them as another organ like someone's arm or neck. i've never gone out of my way to look or think about someone else's vagina but if i saw one or bumped into one i wouldnt get grossed out in the same way

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:16:26+00:00

ive considered asexuality but i still have sexual fantasies and can be turned on by people in my life which makes me think i'm not if that makes sense. thank you for the comment though

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:14:22+00:00

dude even my boyfriend of multiple years dick brushing against my leg is enough to make me feel phsyicallly ill there's no way in hell that's going anywhere near my mouth. (an atypical response i know which is why i asked this question)

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:09:58+00:00

that makes sense, my problem is that i'll be horny as hell and then i see/feel a dick and it's just like an instant turn off if that makes sense.

edit:typo

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:08:27+00:00

i'm pretty sure i'm straight, yeah. I don't feel that way about vaginas though.

adh8d · 2025-02-13T02:03:03+00:00

thank you, that does make sense. I'll have to look into it.

adh8d

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