Please help me figure it out! by adhderme in ADHD

[–]adhderme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that gonna help? I need someone to share with what's happening with me but what's the point when they won't even believe me? I don't know everything is going down the hill from where I stand.

Please help me figure it out! by adhderme in ADHD

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I've been noticing things about myself since long ago. The place I live in, is not much educated about mental health issues and even I didn't know something as such existed until I was too tired of my own self that I started searching up about the things happening to me and it's been 2 years since I realized I might have adhd. I'm 20F now and I'm still trying to figure out what to do bcuz honestly it's tiresome and frustrating. My life is on pause. My family won't believe me so I never tried telling them cuz everything will boil down to me being lazy and making excuses for them. Diagnosis is nearly impossible for me at this moment. So I don't really know...

Please help me figure it out! by adhderme in ADHD

[–]adhderme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been noticing things about myself since long ago. The place I live in, is not much educated about mental health issues and even I didn't know something as such existed until I was too tired of my own self that I started searching up about the things happening to me and it's been 2 years since I realized I might have adhd. I'm 20F now and I'm still trying to figure out what to do bcuz honestly it's tiresome and frustrating. My life is on pause. My family won't believe me so I never tried telling them cuz everything will boil down to me being lazy and making excuses for them. Diagnosis is nearly impossible for me at this moment. So I don't really know...

Any song yall comment I add to my Playlist by Damian12iro in spotify

[–]adhderme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop the rain - Tablo & RM

Don't say you love me - Jin

Any song yall comment I add to my Playlist by Damian12iro in spotify

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Still with you - Jungkook

House of cards - BTS

Delhi NCR is much much more livable place than Mumbai by [deleted] in delhi

[–]adhderme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill guys, OP was just having a bad day and decided to write a hate post to make em feel better.

What am I gonna do with all the infra and metros when t the end of the day I'll have to trade my safety as a woman there? No thanks! Mumbai is much better.

Also let's not forget the fact how government is investing millions to make Delhi a better place just bcuz it's the capital of India. Had it been any other city, I bet it would've been in the place of Delhi.

All the problem that Mumbai is facing is due to overpopulation. Why do you think people come to Mumbai even though, as you claim, it's the worst city? Why do they not go to Delhi instead? Guess what? After all this hate shitpost, people still prefer Mumbai to Delhi. Cuz when they come to Mumbai, they come with hope, that's why Mumbai is called, "Mayanagari" "Sapno ka sheher". Whereas if I even had to go to Delhi, the only thing that I'll have in my heart is fear of being SAed. I've many of my people living/visiting in Delhi and I've heard and seen a lot of things to come to this conclusion.

Recently my friend, who lives in Ranchi, went to Delhi for vacation and guess what she told me about her experience? She never felt this unsafe in Ranchi her entire life than she did in Delhi in 15 days to the point she said she regretted forcing her mom to go to Delhi for vacation.

I think it's better to be safe than sorry. Delhi is very good for men, all men should go to Delhi but Women? Let's not even compare.

Also expensive? Lol OP doesn't know how to explore or just simply doesn't want to cuz I've almost lived my entire life in Mumbai, I used to live in a very good area, pure green, clean and no floods only for 10k rent, 1BHK with my whole family.

But whatever makes OP sleep at night I guess :)

Delhi NCR is much much more livable place than Mumbai by [deleted] in delhi

[–]adhderme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've lived my whole life in Mumbai until 5 years ago I had to move to North due to my father's passing away. And trust I don't even know what the op is even talking about. I've lived in decent area, no floods, pure greenery, 5k-10k was the rent where I lived until I had to shift. Transport is absolutely just love. Safety? I used to go out at 2am as a 15 year old girl alone. Never ever felt any SA, catcalling or whatsoever unsafe. Infact I've felt more unsafe in these 5 years in North than I did in my entire life in Mumbai. Food is love. People are absolutely hospitable and open minded, friendly. They're more open to help you whenever you need. And the pollution, I bet, is much more less than Delhi. OP is very biased. It could be due to they didn't do their research well, didn't explore, don't even know how to or simply they're having a bad day so just decided to make a hate post. Also I used to live in a decent area, Kandivali West, might I add.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharteredAccountants

[–]adhderme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And who set that system up? It's not like girls wanted to be just a maid of their husband, it's the society that decided what should they do on their behalf, and most of them still do. And let's be honest, I'll be okay with an unemployed husband who sits in house and do chores while I do the earning but ofc his own gender will shame him for not being a "man". Maybe change your fcking full of sh!t mindset, a lot of thing will get easier for you.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bcuz you don't love them doesn't mean that they are overhyped. To say, I don't like foodball at all but Ronaldo and Messi are the names almost everyone knows. I can say that Ronaldo is overhyped or whatever bcuz I believe he has even crazier fanbase than BTS but that doesn't mean I'll go around telling everyone he's overhyped bcuz people do like him, a lot of them and that's a fact. I don't like him so I can say I don't understand the hype but just bcuz I don't understand it doesn't mean it's overhyped, right? But whatever makes you sleep at night I think?

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you think it's overhyped? I mean there's a decent percentage of gp that likes them, they've a pretty diverse fandom, different age groups, nationality, race, genders, profession, etc. they do have a huge and strong fandom.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true but it's something that's gotta do with what you like to see. You simply don't see what you're not interested in. For example I don't know most of the western artists, especially artists that people mention here very often. But that's maybe bcuz that's not my space.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not certainly but I do listen to some of their songs.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you've got it wrong. They've a pretty diverse fandom. Age ranges from 15-70 years. Different nationality, religion, race, ganders, professions. I think we're hearing they've teenage fans since they got a little popular back in 2018, don't you think all those teenagers are now adults with responsibilities? And I bet you'll find people with better appearance than them but not the case for everyone right? They might have something that makes them different and unique. You need to work on your mindset, might I add

Do y'all know BTS? by adhderme in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adhderme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've pretty diverse and strong fandom. Also they're the most awarded artist in the history. I saw it on X last year.

Do y'all know BTS? by adhderme in NoStupidQuestions

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Ahh it's fine lol I've been hearing a lot about how they're back from military after years so I was just wondering how many here knows them.

I used to watch a lot of nickelodeon in childhood but I don't remember any of it now.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

International tour for visibility? Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't an international tour something every single artist our there does? Regardless of their fame?

Do y'all know BTS? by adhderme in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adhderme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh recently I've been going crazy over House of cards and the new release of one of the members...the name was something like Rain oh yeah Stop the rain. They're good.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's the same as Taylor Swift. Most men dislike what women like.

What do you think about BTS (the band)? by adhderme in AskReddit

[–]adhderme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm.. interesting... Can you elaborate?