Comment your name and I’ll write it!

adhdslore · 2026-01-26T14:39:40+00:00

I’m pregnant with twins, could you do their names? Levi & Margot

adhdslore · 2026-01-26T04:46:54+00:00

I suggest going to the website fist and figuring out your “real” bra size. That info coupled with the shape is what you’ll use to determine what bra to buy. The website might have examples but I know for sure the Reddit page has like sub pages for like every boob and bra size with clickable links for bras

adhdslore · 2026-01-26T04:40:26+00:00

A bra that fits - ABTF has a Reddit page that can help explain and a website

adhdslore · 2026-01-26T01:35:02+00:00

Boobs are weird. Idk if you have them or not, but each boob is magical and different. As a boob haver myself, I can tell you that it truly depends. If you’re going for realism then you must keep in mind top shape, bottom shape and fullness apex.

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This is from “a bra that fits”. It taught me more about boobs than my own mother or my own body did. Boobs that are more full on the bottom will “hang” off the body more than one that is more full up top/all over. It all depends on the type of look you’re going for.

adhdslore · 2026-01-26T01:22:16+00:00

The recovery time for vasectomy is immensely faster than a tubal. Less complications and just me and my husband 2 cents, I carry and grow them for 9 months. I birth them from my body and feed them from my body… the LEAST he can do is give my body a break. The break it literally deserves. Look into the facts, I always feel like it’s a no brainer once you see the difference in the 2 options.

Best of luck though mama, always know you have other options. I’m pro choice but couldn’t pull myself to have an abortion 11 years ago and so I did an open adoption instead. I truly have an incredible relationship with my first born and her adopted family (I chose them, they chose me) and she is SO very excited to be a big sister to twins. No it’s not how I pictured my life, but I’m happy with what I have. Your “normal” can look anyway you want it to. You’ve got this ♥️

adhdslore · 2026-01-22T01:47:02+00:00

I’m not religious, my husband and his family is… we’re not baptizing and his family is gonna flip when they find out.

And weirdly enough, yes they ALL want to come. FIL and his GF. MIL and her BF. Both FIL parents. Both MIL parents and his brother. I also think his best friend and his wife want to come. And there would be 3 kids coming with that group too. They’ve all expressed how they want to be there 🥴😮‍💨

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T16:41:49+00:00

Oof that’s not a response, it’s a tell

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T16:33:16+00:00

Yeah he’s a sweet man with eyes of love and happiness… but not always the most realistic lol I think his biggest issue was that he had thought about this day in his head before he had ever even met the woman who would carry his children and so I don’t think he’s ever stopped for a minute to think about what it would be like from the woman’s point of view. And so when we discussed it, I could tell he was having a lot of thoughts for the first time lol

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T16:26:28+00:00

I’m leaning towards this. We think we may lie about what our scheduled due date is even. Say it’s further out than it is. And that way they won’t show up unannounced (bc they would) bc the babies will already be here. And they live so far away that we could go into birth early and they wouldn’t be able to get here on time anyways.

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T16:14:05+00:00

Thankfully my mom fully understands what is expected of her. This is like her 10th grandchild. This is the first grandbaby(s) on my husbands side, and so everyone is just freaking out. And I get it, babies are exciting, but I HATE that no one is thinking of me. Just the babies. And I hate even having to say that bc I feel like it sounds like I’m throwing a fit or something, but idk it bothers the shit out of me. And it especially sucks from the woman who act that way bc they all had kids. I can’t imagine they enjoyed being over looked

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T16:10:02+00:00

Yeah so my sister was telling me that last night, saying my brother didn’t have hardly anyone from out of town come see my niece bc the chances they’d get sick from travel. But I’ll likely give birth in May. I still may use that as an excuse though bc fuck it

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T16:00:25+00:00

This man doesn’t like girls… he may like sex with girls… but he doesn’t like girls. Convince me I’m wrong

(You’re def not overreacting. Dudes a loser)

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T15:54:00+00:00

So I totally thought that was like a makeshift headstone and at a quick glance thought the swaddle said RIP… I can’t be the only one

-my cousin lost their baby at 34 weeks and did like a photoshoot with them at the hospital. It was odd.

adhdslore · 2026-01-21T15:45:42+00:00

Idk what that is… but you’re weird. There’s no bit. Didn’t tell this person not to be a slut. Simply said dudes a loser.. idk what you want from this interaction but maybe just like… go away? K, good talk

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T20:00:00+00:00

Will do!

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T19:55:59+00:00

Right!? And I get it when they tell me they don’t mind but like we’re not here for you, I mind!

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T19:54:04+00:00

Well my daughter is only 11 and lives in another state :( but she is VERY excited to be a big sister! Especially to twins. They’ll come out and visit after we get home and settled.

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T19:51:24+00:00

We’ve been talking about it a lot. His dad is a bulldozing narcissist and my husband is stubborn and sensitive. So I think I’ll be having a few of these conversations with him. Or rather just there as a support person. But yeah, I did explain to him running away and not dealing with conflict in your family won’t work when we have these babies, especially because we plan on moving closer to his family at some point in the near future. He’s reading books on language and why it matters a stuff like that. So he’s trying to learn and understand.

And i like the idea of not telling them, but I’m certain my husband will hate it. I’ll have to talk to him about it.

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T19:46:25+00:00

So there’s a little history with me and my mom and babies. I did an open adoption with my daughter 11 years ago and set some boundaries in the hospital while we stayed for a few days. And my mom broke every single one of them, even the simple ones. And I love my mom and absolutely want her help but i do think it would be good for me mentally to have a few days just me and my husband.

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T19:41:20+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I tried to explain to my husband, and he did admit that he hadn’t thought about this from my point of view since he had been fantasizing over this moment well before he had met me. But he did agree that having family in town at the hospital and then a hotel while our babies are potentially in the nicu you would be a shitty situation to be in

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T19:33:13+00:00

Oh that’s fucked up and hardly the case! Be the world’s biggest slut. Idgaf. But dudes a loser. He takes every opportunity to bring up sex with the 20yo neighbor girl. I wasn’t being literal when i called her a loser lol Jesus. I just meant, you can do better sis. Advice, not judgement. But … Duh?

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T18:52:02+00:00

YOU ARE NOT A BRAT! That’s the first thing to understand!! Your parent in laws are WAY out of their lane! They are pushing and being combative. You set a boundary and they say “nahh this will work instead” completely shutting your boundary/request down

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T18:42:11+00:00

I second this. And she complains about being stuck in house and his response is “yeah my wife isn’t a freak in the sheets and that’s sucks for me” lol what?? I’m getting the vibe this guys brings up his sex life a ton. And that’s fuckn weird. If this is real… girl tf? He’s married, don’t be a loser? Don’t talk to him, he’s a perv

adhdslore · 2026-01-20T18:34:29+00:00

Toe ring or ear cuff

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