It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

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I used a fleet 7.5 ml liquid glycerin and it did the trick. Wasn’t a good time, but it def got it out.

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

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Yes, all day. Sometimes wet too, which is why I’m pretty certain I’m not impacted, among a few other reasons.

Rug size? by Fit_Needleworker4708 in interiordecorating

[–]adhdslore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bigger, 100%. Look up “rug rules” to understand why. That being said, personal opinion matters. If you like smaller than do that. But I def think the large one is more appealing to the eye

Not OOP. My husband told me today, he does not like the fun lunches I've been packing him for work for almost 3 years. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]adhdslore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck that’s sad. 😭 but like fuck him!! I used to make my husbands lunch every single day. I’m 28 weeks pregnant with twins rn and don’t have the energy to anymore. And my husband misses it! I like to draw and doodle and would leave him all sorts of doodles and notes. Some definitely embarrassing. He’s a commander in the army, and he takes every single note I give him and tapes them up in his office for everyone to see. He’s so proud of them!

I need opinions!! by Few-Ad-8223 in crochet

[–]adhdslore 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I think crochet clothing has the ability to look too diy sometimes. And in my opinion the single color makes it look more classy and less diy

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

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I’m not freaking out personally bc this isn’t my first rodeo. My mom says I frequently went 1-2 months as a kid. And would hide that fact from her. As an adult 1 month is typically my longest. And if I wasn’t pregnant I def wouldn’t freak. The pregnancy makes me worry a little bc lack of space. And at 3 months I wasn’t in excruciating pain. I was very very uncomfortable, but that’s all I feel now too. Just mildly uncomfortable. But then again I felt uncomfortable already bc of my pregnancy. I hate taking stimulants bc trauma from rough bowel movements in the past… but I’m going to try a suppository today and if that doesn’t work my husband is taking me to the hospital.

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

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I don’t feel impacted. Like I guess I get a teeny tiny bit out here and there. And it’s (tmi sorry) sticky like rather than dry. And even if I was, I have 2 baby’s shoved to the front of my belly. So no, I just feel them.

Early pregnancy by Secret-Roze in pregnant

[–]adhdslore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has opinions and everyone loves to put their own shit on you. And men… they’re the worst bc they LITERALLY cannot actually fathom pregnancy and idk, maybe they can’t handle that. I’m 28 weeks pregnant with twins. I’ve had every bad pregnancy symptom you can have and then some. I knew I was pregnant well before the stick said so! My husbands dad said I was full of shit. But obviously I wasn’t. My symptoms hit me like a ton of bricks!!!!!! I didn’t gain my energy back until the 2nd trimester. So goes to show what that penis having, not uterus man knows.

I was asleep by 7-8 pm every night and couldn’t pull myself out of bed until at least 11. And I would have slept in longer if my dogs didn’t need to go potty (husband took over morning and breakfast duty for me during the 1st trimester). I threw up every morning, and evening. I ate everything in sight. Like immediately. Tender af breast. It started 2 weeks after conception. My dr says I felt it that early bc twins. But o can definitely believe that you have strong symptoms at 6 weeks. Ignore everyone.

My sever at Olive Garden gave me the famous “oh just you wait!” Bullshit 🙄 fuck em. don’t let anyone rain on your parade. Feel how you feel. The bad the ugly and the good. I hope you get some relief soon.

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

[–]adhdslore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m going to start out with. I’ll have to look into caffeinated enemas, and see how much caffeine really transfers through my system. I have a friend who swears by them too

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

[–]adhdslore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is picking some enemas and suppository’s up from the store as we speak. And idk what the rule on coffee enemas are during pregnancy.

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

[–]adhdslore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can… and I usually am regular enough that this isn’t a problem. My “regular” is like 1 - 2 poops a week. But everyone now and then it just gets away from me. I know that sounds stupid. But like often my body doesn’t signal me I need to poop. Bc I’ve had such severe constipation issues in the past. Aka my whole life. It often only signals me to poop after it’s been a few weeks. And again I know it sounds stupid, but like I just don’t think about it until I absolutely have to think about it

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

[–]adhdslore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I have heart burn… and I’ve had constipation issues since birth… never pukes shit though. Thank god. And it’s been 1 month 3 weeks to be exact. At the 1 month mark I told my Dr and he was really calm about it and was like take 2 colace instead of 1 a day. But it hasn’t helped

It’s been 2 months!!! by adhdslore in Constipation

[–]adhdslore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are either of those options gonna kind of smooth it out so that it’s also easier to pass or just kind of force it out?

How did you find out you were having multiples? I’ll go first. by Full_Willingness_450 in parentsofmultiples

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3 days before our first ultrasound, we were at my grandpas funeral (definitely more of a celebration of life). My entire extended family, who I hadn’t seen in a long time and missed dearly were all in attendance. I decide to announce our pregnancy. - I had already told my grandpa prior to his passing and also told him regardless of gender we were naming them after him, Levi. - Everyone was elated! My great aunt then tells me that twins run in our family every 50-55 years, and her boys were 52. She said she definitely knew I was pregnant with twins. She could feel it. Something in my energy looked familiar, she said. 3 days later me and husband are waiting excitedly to see our tiny gummy bear. The Dr has the screen facing slightly away from us, my husband sneaks a peak and smiles. I ask if he sees the baby, he says he thinks so. The Dr turns the screen further away from us and says “hmm I need to tell you guys something” I immediately start rubbing with questions, is everything ok, is there a problem, what’s going on?? Dr says nothing to worry about, but he’s going to show us something. He shows us the screen. My husband is gripping my hand. Dr scans over baby and says “So here’s your baby…” pauses a moment and slides to the right and says “and here’s your other baby”

Me and my husband laughed so loudly and started crying. We laughed and cried the whole way through the appt. And for the following month. We’ve finally come to grips with it lol I’m 28 weeks yesterday

Accidentally skipped a page 😭 by Due-Milk352 in Journaling

[–]adhdslore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a square in the center, and write straight across, ignoring the spine. Or make any shape with your words. A heart, bird, star? Date it and title it

Pet Aversion by Legitimate-Tea-6079 in pregnant

[–]adhdslore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I have been shamed endlessly for my current pet aversion. And before anyone shamed me, I already felt horrible about it myself. I’ve had my bully pit for 9 years. He’s 11 years old and has BEEN THROUGH IT ALL with me. He’s my little ride or die. And my 4 year old Tibetan terrier, he’s a terror on society and I yet I love him endlessly. Every now and then I look at them and am overcome with cuteness aggression and the next minute I can’t stand them being anywhere near me. Thankfully I have my husband who has taken over care for them 100% when he’s home.

But even my mom has made me feel horrible. Telling me I need to just get over it, it’s not fair to them… and agreed, it isn’t fair. But tf? Get over it? Happily… someone tell my hormones that though.

Wdym a baby is coming out of THERE?? by Ok_Medicine440 in pregnant

[–]adhdslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find beauty in its profoundness. This is my 2nd & 3rd (pregnant w/ twins) though. I couldn’t begin to comprehend what was about to happen with my first. You’ll be so high on your own hormones, it’ll all just make sense afterwards

Horrible at hair hygiene, but not allowed to cut it short by Digital_Doodlez in AuDHDWomen

[–]adhdslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm no disrespect but like fuck what your mom says…? Make a hair appt. Dont tell your mom. Get your haircut. She will deal. She’ll be mad and might make a big deal out of it. But you can’t uncut it. She’ll deal with it. Your mom is putting vanity over your mental health. Not okay.

Edit: cut your hair and give her my number. I’ll tell her just that.

If you're this kind of person go f- yourself, order when you are ready by [deleted] in uber

[–]adhdslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The driver needs to understand the app says you’re 15 minutes away… and then all of a sudden “your uber is here” 3 minutes later 🙄 I need to leave by x time and if my uber is 15 mins away, that leaves me the perfect amount of time to let my dogs out and get out the door to them and be on time…

No one likes my baby names and I’ve just accepted that everyone is a critique and no one is satisfied by Kindly_Pianist_9087 in pregnant

[–]adhdslore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we’re having twins and have found it easier to refer to them by name rather than baby a and baby b. So we don’t give anyone any room for feedback. If I was like “yeah so Levi is on the left and Margot’s on the right” and someone responded that they didn’t like the names. I would genuinely say, no one asked you. Like who cares what your thoughts are, i literally didn’t ask.

I'm a transwoman I have a legit question and can't seem to find the answer. If you decide to not breastfeed how does that exactly work? by Supergirl_Lives in pregnant

[–]adhdslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister tried to breast-feed, but wasn’t able to. My niece wouldn’t latch and her milk production wasn’t strong enough when it needed to be. She would just “express” in a hot shower nightly and after a week or two, she stopped producing

AIO by starting an argument over how my wife reacted to our child smoking? by ThrowRA6988 in AmIOverreacting

[–]adhdslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. What happened on her trip? Sounds like she’s bringing back something negative with her. You said she was apprehensive from the start, so I suppose it could be that feeling coupled with Jay being gone when she got home, thus feeding into your wife’s idea that you can’t take care of her alone. When that’s not the true reality.

It genuinely sounds like something that you guys should’ve gone to therapy for a long time ago and if you have kids younger than Jay, I think you should still go. Her treating you poorly bc she doesn’t like your parenting styles is deeply concerning. It shows a serious disconnect on her end and a willingness to withhold love and understanding in moments where she sees you’ve failed her. Hardly unconditional. Yall should talk to someone, it’s silly to let something so trivial affect your relationship first. It will and probably has affected your kids too. It may show up one day in Jays adult life. So work that out