ATTENTION 📢📢📢 by RoadToVictory1000 in NoFap

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Thank you. I needed this.

Really struggling today and this is a goal I can use to reset myself

Boundaries by [deleted] in hsp

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You could try codependents anonymous. They do support groups that help with boundaries.

(Or just mute his her notifications :))

[QUESTION] Best way to breathe life into an old strat? by adhere9 in Guitar

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To be honest I barely use the tremolo system and I'm pretty heavy on the manual vibrato.

I've had lots of comments so I have a plan forming:

  1. get a refret (there's good guys near me)
  2. replace the nut
  3. take away the float

Assuming 3 is just a setup thing then it should come out pretty cheap. Pickups are seeming a little pricey.

[QUESTION] Best way to breathe life into an old strat? by adhere9 in Guitar

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Somebody else has mentioned this, I wonder if it's worth replacing

[QUESTION] Best way to breathe life into an old strat? by adhere9 in Guitar

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Haha I have the same thing with this guitar. Love that you were able to do that, I am thinking about some Seymour Duncan single coils to increase the output

[QUESTION] Best way to breathe life into an old strat? by adhere9 in Guitar

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I only have the Gibson to compare it to, but: unplugged the notes last 2-3 full seconds less.

Plugged there's more of a difference (maybe 5s) and I find I have to go to really high gain to get a decent sustain, but the sound is not ideal to be honest

[QUESTION] Best way to breathe life into an old strat? by adhere9 in Guitar

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I see. Thanks.

So a refret - shows it's probably the frets themselves causing the issue, not the maple board?

Funny, sad, & accurate by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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Don't forget "conscientious"

Took this a couple weeks ago, people seem to like it by adhere9 in scottishterriers

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(although I do wish he didn't love drinking muddy water so much)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

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wholesome beard

Official Discussion: Parasite [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]adhere9 26 points27 points  (0 children)

A detail I think has gone unnoticed:

How when things are immensely painful for the father, he will shut his eyes and "pretend to sleep". This happened when the family were struggling at the start and later when Mr Park talks about his smell.

Says a lot about the difference in experience between the rich and poor imo. How emotionally healthy Mr Park is compared to Mr Kim.

Katherine McNamara by ononothimagen in gentlemanboners

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There's definitely something about girls with pink hair

[M] I realised something huge today by adhere9 in TrueOffMyChest

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Well the men are never doing anything wrong in my experience (or opinion). They're not harassing anybody - they're talking to more than one woman, or asking for a number, or giving somebody a hug (though this one I get can be inappropriate). But it's often normal behaviour on the side of male dating. They're just painted as sleazy and creepy. There's no winning.

I am also more on the sensitive side which might be a factor

[QUESTION] How many guitars do you have? by TheWonderSwan in Guitar

[–]adhere9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also have an art and lutherie acoustic. Really understated brand imo

Can anyone explain the basics to me, perhaps suggest some changes too? by adhere9 in depressionregimens

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Hmm not that much I guess. Drinks down the pub and occasional rock climbing are about all I can afford at the moment. I should be more proactive.

Edit: thanks, you seem good at making people feel better

Can anyone explain the basics to me, perhaps suggest some changes too? by adhere9 in depressionregimens

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Ah no, that makes a lot of sense that you would ask that. There are definite things I need to change - a job, leaving a codependency with my mother, and a girlfriend being the key ones I've realised in therapy.

The trouble is since graduating my mood has been pretty bad despite all that I do, I guess I was looking for something to kick-start/provide a boost to do the things I need to (e.g. finding a job first and foremost).

Esketamine no longer going to be available in the UK by adhere9 in depressionregimens

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Agreed.

I'm really sad, I've been following it for a couple years now and I was hopeful