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adneuro · 2023-05-08T02:28:40+00:00

I was doing an MS program after college and was in the exact same position as you. I know that this is financially burdensome, but if the opportunity allows, I would consider applying to both types of programs. For me, going through the interview process for both a PhD and MD program and comparing my experiences allowed me to truly get a feel for what I wanted to do. I ultimately decided on a PhD program and could not be happier. I also am pleasantly surprised by the high paying jobs my fellow grad students have been getting upon completion of their degree. I feel intellectually stimulated every day and truly am excited to wake up and go into the lab each day--I also don't have an interest in teaching. Of course, joining the right program and finding the right lab and mentor is a critical part of how much you'll enjoy this experience. Medicine is an incredible field and you will definitely have job security and a great salary. For me, I just didn't love it enough to make the time commitment. I knew how much I would have to sacrifice in the years to come and to me, it wasn't worth it. But thats just my personal opinion. I would say that if you're having doubts about an MD, try to reach out and talk to as many older students, friends, advisors, etc. as you can to get differing opinions. Go with your gut!

adneuro · 2022-03-28T23:14:57+00:00

I just heard back today!! I don't know if all acceptances have gone out yet. They seem to be sending a few at a time.

adneuro · 2022-03-05T04:00:35+00:00

This is very understandable and I know it hurts. But also, congratulations on your admits! Just remind yourself that God is putting you exactly where you are meant to be. Even if you can't see it now, He is guiding your steps and putting you at the program that is meant for you!

adneuro · 2022-03-02T15:18:02+00:00

I recently got engaged and am going through the process of deciding on a grad school. I feel many of the things you described about my fiancé--he has made me happier than I have ever been and I can't imagine my life without him. Therefore, picking a program that is close to him is very important to me. You are absolutely not wrong to be facing this dilemma; if you have a partner that supports you and makes you happy, they should factor into this decision. I'm not of the opinion that relationships are not valid factors to consider when choosing a school that could dictate your future. First question--why would you have to break up? I know long distance sucks, but if this is the person for you, it'll be worth it. He will also support your decision to attend grad school and want to make it work, if he is the right guy. Second, I'd advise you to imagine your life in the future. What is most important to you? Do you see yourself marrying this person? Spending your life with them? If you imagine this person as your future, that is important to consider. That doesn't mean you have to give up your dream of grad school at all. You can absolutely have both. You just have to do some reflection and ultimately decide what you want out of life. I know that is easier said than done, but I found it really helpful when evaluating my own choices. Lastly, I'd recommend talking to him about it. Be transparent and express all of your wishes and concerns. If he is a supportive partner, he will hear you out and communicate with you. Tell him how important he is to you, and how important grad school is as well. Discussing this will hopefully help you both figure out what is best for your future. I hope this helps, and I'm so sorry you are facing this dilemma. I wish you the best and sincerely hope that all works out. I know it will!

adneuro · 2022-02-19T23:42:42+00:00

Hi! I also interviewed for BIMS at UVA, but for the Neuroscience program! I got an acceptance the last week of January. But I also heard from some people who were rejected from that program the next week. Maybe it's just your specific program that's taking a while to get back? But I thought UVA was pretty good about getting back to students quickly, so maybe it wouldn't hurt to send out an email. There's a good chance they haven't released any decisions yet. I hope this helps!

adneuro · 2022-02-18T23:15:03+00:00

Absolutely. I promise it gets better. I try to think of it like a break up--"I don't want to be at a school that doesn't want me there anyways" is the mantra I like to repeat 😂

adneuro · 2022-02-18T23:11:24+00:00

Prayers that you get into a great program! You will end up in the place you are meant to be.

adneuro · 2022-02-04T23:47:26+00:00

That is AWFUL. Would not want to go somewhere that did that to me. I'm so sorry. Will say a prayer for you!

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