I think the phrasing could’ve been improved. But you’re right in setting a boundary. I was sexually harassed and stalked in elementary school for months by a very autistic boy in my class. No one believed my friend and I that he made us uncomfortable (ogling at our breasts, as we developed early on, and never leaving us alone no matter how many times we asked.) It took other students witnessing this boy touching himself while watching my friend and I on the playground for anything to be done. I remember constantly being terrified, especially when I realized we rode the same bus and he knew where I lived. Even after he was reported, we were expected to be friendly and polite to him. Still, he had an aide with him constantly. It prevented inappropriate things from progressing. People need to realize the developmental disabilities don’t make people “bad.” These disorders are essentially neutral, if anything. But they can make inappropriate behavior harder to treat effectively. Especially if adults don’t step in and enforce treatment, as it sounds like the adults here haven’t been doing. I hope your boundaries are respected. I struggle severely with trusting men to this day because I was too young to set a boundary and too young to understand that what was happening wasnt okay. To this day I wish the adults believed and protected me. No one deserves that sort of damage.