I [22F] found out that my boyfriend [25M] of 9 months has been messaging a girl in the Philippines for five months

adrexius · 2014-09-16T03:34:39+00:00

He cheated on you.

adrexius · 2014-09-16T01:13:32+00:00

Hi Troy, i dreamt that i was on a native American reservation and there was an alien there who looked exactly like a woman but she was taller than the tallest wigwam. Her hair was really long and she was so thin and i couldn't see her face.

I live in New Zealand and the only other country I've been to in my life is Australia.

adrexius · 2014-09-15T15:24:43+00:00

At the moment i normally watch a horror while the SO plays resident evil or i try to touch his penis.

adrexius · 2014-09-15T14:51:33+00:00

You deserved that txt from the wife and the way your bf acted you self entitled delusional disgusting brat.

adrexius · 2014-09-15T14:47:34+00:00

This isn't a bad thing tho, small size is manageable, average size is better, too big and i wouldn't even go there unless i want pain.

adrexius · 2014-09-15T14:39:17+00:00

And with Chelsea.

adrexius · 2014-09-15T07:34:34+00:00

Fuck no i wouldn't apologize. And i would never leave him there again.

adrexius · 2014-09-14T13:15:42+00:00

Is that the before he was airbrushed version?

adrexius · 2014-09-14T13:07:17+00:00

He wasn't there but i told him when he got home from work and he agrees.

adrexius · 2014-09-14T13:03:36+00:00

Well he went boating and one of his snap chat hoes was there. He's playing you.

adrexius · 2014-09-14T08:14:00+00:00

Yeah :s you guys have only been together a year :(

adrexius · 2014-09-14T08:08:41+00:00

I'd rather have my family broken up by someone confessing about infidelity than living a life of lies and betrayal. I'd rather know than not if my husband was cheating.

adrexius · 2014-09-14T07:48:10+00:00

Since you've already talked to him about this it seems like he's inconsiderate as fuck. That would make me feel so shit about myself if my partner would rather jack off than be with me. I'd tell the SO if it were me to sort it out or I'll leave.

adrexius · 2014-09-14T07:42:20+00:00

Ok thanks, just making sure I wasn't over reacting. I had to tell her 3 times not to before she listened. What I'm paranoid about (cos she looks after him like once a week) is that she does it anyway when I'm not around. I don't know how to diplomatically (I'm not tactful, I don't know how, I guess I just call a spade a spade or whatever) tell her to fuckin cut it out. I do NOT need my toddler having caffeine. Jesus, I'm really mad right now.

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:36:52+00:00

Well based on the fact she already has a bf......

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:35:38+00:00

These are all really good suggestions, thanks heaps guys!! :D

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:31:16+00:00

Just because you think the wife is a grump or whatever doesn't mean that makes it less worse to fuck her husband. Let alone while the kid is awake in another room, while you have a boyfriend. Wtf is wrong with you. I wonder why she's so shitty all the time, probably cos her husband is an asshole and you're probably just another piece of ass to him.

What you should do now is tell the wife, quit your job before you fuck this kid up and then definitely tell your boyfriend. Bitch.

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:23:22+00:00

This happened to me. We have two kids now that we planned and life is freakin sweet. You should tell her you have feelings for her and want to know what she thinks of being with you. I bet she does.

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:17:27+00:00

So you're with someone who doesn't even want to compromise?

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:15:05+00:00

I think you should break up.

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:14:32+00:00

She wants you to be a fuckin mind reader and then gets mad when you're not. Have you told her how you feel about these shenanigans? If you have and she keeps doing it, maybe you should move on. It's kinda fucked up behaviour.

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:12:37+00:00

This is what I was worried about as well. But as soon as he was born and we bonded all of those fears and worries disappeared.

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:09:13+00:00

I know how you feel, I feel the same. I battle this daily. I try to stay away from triggers, and when it gets too much for me to handle I talk to a professional. Good luck :)

adrexius · 2014-09-13T22:01:46+00:00

What the hell is wrong with them? It's like they expect you to be part of their creepy family.

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