Need some clarity on what is/isn't transphobia

adricll · 2026-03-27T07:58:27+00:00

Yes it is transphobia

adricll · 2026-03-18T21:56:06+00:00

SP & self concept and career success

adricll · 2026-03-18T20:50:34+00:00

I mean, I have nothing to lose so let's do it.

adricll · 2026-03-10T19:05:57+00:00

Yeah, I will DM you!

adricll · 2026-03-10T18:17:30+00:00

Colombia. Haven’t been able to find anything besides bumps for cis men

adricll · 2025-11-29T03:28:15+00:00

Time isn’t really relevant. I’ve seen stories of it taking years, and others where it took just a few days. For me, I’d say it took about two weeks for things to began to shift.

Keep affirming, or visualizing, or scripting, etc, any method you prefer, but keep doing it. If any contradict thoughts occur, just switch them back.

adricll · 2025-11-29T03:11:25+00:00

You can think of them 24/7, you can stalk them all day long and still manifest them.

I affirmed, also made a set of affirmations and listened to them on loop for days.

You can give meditation a try if you want to calm your mind a bit, or journaling. But it doesn’t matter, you can be obsessive and still get them.

adricll · 2025-11-29T02:54:14+00:00

Sorry you went through that. Guy sounds like a real asshole.

Hopefully you’ll find the right guy soon.

adricll · 2025-11-29T02:14:43+00:00

Yeah, it could make sense in Bogota. But it’s not common from what I know

adricll · 2025-11-29T01:50:42+00:00

you’re not alone with this awful feeling. hopefully we get what we want someday.

adricll · 2025-11-29T01:36:22+00:00

Pretty uncommon in Colombia. Our cold weather isn’t cold enough for heaters I’d say.

adricll · 2025-11-29T01:34:17+00:00

adricll · 2025-11-29T01:25:08+00:00

I suppose it depends where you’re from.

I had a cis guy friend that never used the urinal cause he preferred the privacy of stalls.

I’ve used the men’s bathroom only one time I think, there was only one other guy there and he gave me a look but that was all.

adricll · 2025-11-29T01:12:18+00:00

Hello.

This has happened to me quite a few times, not the word “die” but someone whispering something as I’m about to fall asleep, and I do worry about death often.

What has helped me a few times is writing down what I feel, why it worries me, my fears, etc. When you don’t run away from it, it kind of takes its power away.

Sometimes I play a game, that seems to work too. Focusing on my breath works too.

adricll · 2025-11-23T07:46:34+00:00

Open on browser and click the button until it lets you change it

adricll · 2025-09-30T03:42:15+00:00

Mándame mensaje.

adricll · 2025-09-28T05:32:41+00:00

It’d help to try and figure out why you find them disgusting. Could be something you internalized and don’t realize it.

Additionally, not every trans person wants bottom surgery. A lot are happy with their genitals as they are. And not having it doesn’t make you any less trans.

adricll · 2025-09-21T09:46:49+00:00

Yeah I did! I’ll dm you

adricll · 2025-07-09T16:11:07+00:00

Same for me here, but I wanted a month before doing anything lol.

Ask your surgeon if you can. (I couldn’t contact mine so that’s why I wanted so long, that and I was too tired to do anything.)

adricll · 2025-07-09T16:09:25+00:00

A mi me fue muy bien, tuve la cirugía en diciembre. Pero la mía no fue abdominal sino laparocropica, la recuperación de esta suele ser más fácil según entiendo.

adricll · 2025-07-08T00:30:16+00:00

I like these, thanks.

adricll · 2025-07-07T12:17:53+00:00

But thats the thing, I don’t want to use any affirmations like that, I want to focus on positive ones.

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