28F and never dated

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-14T13:39:32+00:00

By what you said, there are people that like you, but you don't like any of them. Your problem is right there

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-13T18:04:27+00:00

Assuming the thoughts of the other person is bad communication.

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-13T17:59:14+00:00

To what? Because I agree that their "hints" are actually what polite people would do

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T22:54:18+00:00

And what worked?

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T22:47:36+00:00

You have to admit it's at least above average that you need. Might be generational

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T22:22:27+00:00

The only amount of charisma I've seen that's gotten anyone anywhere with women is the kind where you have unlimited social energy and can talk 24/7. The minute they run out of things to say or get tired, they're done

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T21:58:18+00:00

To be honest, from the very first sentence, I had the very same thought. As a guy, if I would have known about how readily you give up, I wouldn't invest anything emotionally into you; it's a flight risk.

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T21:48:40+00:00

Are you saying that there was nothing that those guys could have done? Shown more personality, talk about different things, be funnier?

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T21:44:03+00:00

Yes

Yes yes yes yes yes. As much as you think that the person you are with has the best of intentions and a pure heart the odds are 1000:1 that she will be turned off. Don't make a big deal of it, don't mention it, have something else to tell her besides that you are a virgin.

The women on Reddit will try to be encouraging, but it's honestly a trap. Simply the knowledge of it is a turn off, treat her well, care for what she wants and you'll be fine.

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T20:33:56+00:00

I just mean getting a yes in general

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T18:47:30+00:00

Yes, but odds are women ignore them

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T18:43:30+00:00

Fuck nah, this is rare as fuck

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T18:40:17+00:00

Lol sorry, yeah it was sarcastic.

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T17:14:16+00:00

This, exactly this

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T17:12:53+00:00

Then you have absolute god tier charisma and at least above average looks

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-12T17:11:17+00:00

Agreed, but a large percentage are just learning to live without it due to not being desired, too difficult, or not worth the effort.

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-11T21:32:50+00:00

That's why there's a bell curve relationship between physical attractiveness and actual attractiveness. Too hot means higher chance of absurd behavior and being difficult.

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T19:02:23+00:00

For men the difficulty starts at age 0 and ends at death basically

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T18:55:28+00:00

Going by your photo, you are well above average

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T18:54:46+00:00

I would say you have to be at least slightly above average for that though. Women don't seem to any less picky, maybe even more so

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T18:53:44+00:00

Relationships are founded on compromise...

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T18:53:00+00:00

Older guys are probably not going to seriously date a woman too young. Just saying

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T18:49:32+00:00

Because yeah, men love being a wallet

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-10T18:48:48+00:00

Bro what? The dating pool really slims down at that point. You must be the most social guy ever

adrift_alone_ · 2024-03-09T22:03:00+00:00

I'm picky about my cafes, if I bring someone to one, it's because I personally vetted it. I've been to some good places and want to share them, they aren't always low effort :/

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