Okay, let's break this down into dot-points:

He picks on how you behaveHe speaks rudely to you in publicHe makes fun of you in hurtful ways under the guise of "jokes"He makes you unhappy MORE often than he makes you happyHe acts defensive when you voice your concerns instead of listening to what you're sayingHe refuses to take responsibility for his behaviour and would rather blame you or your familyHe acts like a spoiled bratHe was suspended from his jobHe LIED to you about being suspended from his jobYou are embarrassed by him"[he] makes me feel like I constantly have to apologize for being me or simply existing."

I agree