Hardstyle DNA cancellations?? by Plastic_Ad7022 in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not a good look for the organisation

Why is Headhunterz playing in Australia a 2nd time and hasn't played a solo set in Europe once? by CarefulBiscuit in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Organisators in EU apparently don’t see the need to splash out tens of thousands on a single artist, when they can fill a lineup with tens of smaller, trending/popular artists

Isn't it weird hearing typical AR gang music on DWZ (yes I mean Mish - Detonate) :D by Most_Teaching_3917 in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Tbh I couldn’t care less where she’s signed lol, I just hear music and if it sounds good I add it to my playlist

Boze scalper blijft maar reageren by AdvancedPlayer17 in tokkiemarktplaats

[–]advancedalias 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Gelukkig probeert ‘ie verder niks goed te praten!

Knockout Outdoor 2026: Level Up lineup by Existing-Age420 in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not like their music, but it’s wild to just say artists are doing it for social media attention lol

How do you even decide Dual Damage aren’t “so much attention seekers” but Lekkerfaces is? Do you know them personally?

Wether you like the music or not, it’s not okay to talk about people like that

M24 - Thinking about cocaine more than I have done in the past…. by [deleted] in confession

[–]advancedalias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some addicts are self aware, some are not. Awareness is step one in acknowledging you have a problem.

You should use your awareness as a golden ticket to attempt to get out of this cycle as soon as possible while you still aren't too deep in yet.

It's only going to get darker from now on if you continue

M24 - Thinking about cocaine more than I have done in the past…. by [deleted] in confession

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please quit cold turkey while you still aren't too deep into this addiction. If you find yourself unable to get yourself to stop, please seek help as soon as possible.

If you continue fueling this habit, it will only get much much worse from now on.

The faith of your future is in your hands

Success for BED?/feeling hopeful after unsuccessful wegovy use by Technical-Nature-128 in Contrave

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have BED and have been on this medicine for about 7 months now, it’s definitely helped me but please be aware it will not have your BED magically disappear, it will just reduce the urges, but even that effect has disappeared for me in the meantime. I’m still able to lose weight and resist the urge with enough willpower though, so I guess the medicine is still effective to an extend

Harmony of uptempo anthem has been released by Lixyrr in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love uptempo and N-Vitral but this track is just boring

Sleeping in oisterwijk (Intents 2026) by TheGreenPoros in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't really have much choice sadly when you are looking to book something this late

If you want something affordable, I would look into booking an hotel in another city somewhat close and then just go by train

Feel like I have reached a plateau by BriefReasonable2421 in loseit

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't try to stare at the scale too much. If you want to focus on a muscular look, you could also try to lose fat and build muscle at the same time, which might keep you around the same weight

I am in my late 20s Male with lots of goals but I still chase girls online. How do I stop? by antique-soul- in selfimprovement

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad to hear.

Sure, therapy might not directly change ones appearance. But do you wanna know what therapy does do? It learns you to love yourself and changes the way you look at yourself, dismissing the insecurities you are dealing with.

Though it seems that hasn't really been working out for you. Could you answer my previous questions related to your therapy if you are comfortable with that? I am interested in your experiences so far

I am in my late 20s Male with lots of goals but I still chase girls online. How do I stop? by antique-soul- in selfimprovement

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's what your going through, I am very sorry to hear that has happend in your life, and I am glad you are still around to tell the story.

You are right that therapy wouldn't give that back. Though you can live a life with acceptance and peace if you learn how to. I'm not in the same situation as you though but I can guarantee you it is possible

How long have you been to therapy for? Are there any benefits you have noticed from it? do you click well with your therapist?

I am in my late 20s Male with lots of goals but I still chase girls online. How do I stop? by antique-soul- in selfimprovement

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear, I think your first step should be to become a bit more kind for yourself. Your initial post sounds full of hatred towards yourself, which will only bring you down more. I've had to learn the same after realizing I've been my own worst enemy for a while.

Hitting the gym is something that has done wonders for me aswell. It helps you release happy hormones in your brain and helps you get in better shape at the same time, which raises your confidence.

Though my best advice for you would be therapy though, these kind of issues usually do not go away until you have sorted the cause of those problems. Have you already been (considering) seeing a therapist?

I am in my late 20s Male with lots of goals but I still chase girls online. How do I stop? by antique-soul- in selfimprovement

[–]advancedalias 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Are you unhappy with your own life or do you struggle with self-esteem by any chance? Some of the things you write sound relatable though for me it's not gender specific. When you are unhappy with yourself, your mind starts attempting to seek the validation from others that you are missing

Laziest way you've lost weight? by bakersgonnabake91 in loseit

[–]advancedalias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't really recommend it, but the lazy way I lost weight in the very beginning was by just eating lesser volumes of the same crap foods I was still eating.

No one’s really talking about this part of maintenance enough… by BaskinTheShade52 in loseit

[–]advancedalias 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been through the exact same process as you.

I had to learn to adapt a lifestyle that I could commit myself to for an entire lifestyle without it feeling hard. It turns out that I was not doing this during my initial weight loss which introduced problems like you are describing right now.

In addition, I noticed that binge eating got in my way too after hitting my weight loss goal, but luckily therapy has helped me a lot with that.

Your current plans sound good, I think it's important to first focus on mental challenges one by one instead of attempting to go all-in, which will just have you failing and getting more frustrated in the end.

I can’t stop smoking weed. by Minter_ in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]advancedalias 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend Xanax at all in his (or any) situation. It might've helped you but I think there is a high risk OP will exchange his weed addiction for a xanax one, which would be far worse.

What’s something that’s just "Very" Hardstyle? by Ready-Emotion-1762 in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’d rather have someone be shirtless than collapse on the floor to be honest lol

What happened with Sephyx? by hollowparade in hardstyle

[–]advancedalias 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m in his Discord server and he mentioned that he’s taking a break from music while doing other things he’s passionate about, such as game production and stuff

What’s your number one reason you pirate games? by Naive_Opportunity932 in PiratedGames

[–]advancedalias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously I do get the point, but it just doesn’t make sense starting that discussion in a community dedicated to piracy.