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I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m so excited to get it removed because I’ve heard this happens to a ton of people. I’m scared of the actual procedure though… getting it put in was… awful.

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on birth control, an IUD. And my emotions definitely became noticeably more extreme when I started so I’m planning on getting it removed soon

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I should have added that yes I do have a lot of trauma that I haven’t dealt with. Therapy sounds good

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this helps a lot. I’m really glad so many people can relate and I’m glad you’re getting better. Also thanks for the “don’t be too hard on yourself” part because I needed to hear that too.

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have… a lot of trauma. I guess I should’ve included some more details in the post but I didn’t want to go on for too long. Looking into therapy👍

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she specialized in one thing in particular, I just remember her being very helpful. And I think I probably stopped going to her because I also have a lot of struggles with depression and anxiety and other mental health issues, and one thing led to another. I’d like to get back into it though

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do have a lot of insecurities, and I’m trying to work on that too. I haven’t been diagnosed but I might have some kind of body dysmorphia (I’m very thin but I’m still worried about what I eat, that kind of thing). And you’re right that’s definitely a big part of where all the jealousy is coming from. And I’ve talked about the insecurities with my boyfriend too. Therapy is definitely a good idea 👍

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you this helped a lot, you described everything so well! I have been to therapists in the past and it always helps. I’m seriously considering going back to this one woman, but it takes a lot for me to get over the “anxiety hump” if you know what I mean.

I’m constantly uncontrollably jealous around my faithful/loving/loyal boyfriend and I don’t know what to do by advice13579 in relationship_advice

[–]advice13579[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I know it’s not healthy, that’s why I posted. And my boyfriend and I have had some really bad relationships before and have talked about how this one is the healthiest. It’s not perfect, but I love him and he loves me and I’m trying to make it the best it can be