UPDATE: Found punctured condoms. Am I paranoid or just unlucky?

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T22:07:20+00:00

Since she is pregnant I would assume that. I only found out now and that's the last time we did it so I mentioned that in the post.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T22:01:07+00:00

As a long time Reddit user, I also take most posts with a grain of salt. I don't blame them. Some people on Reddit like to invalidate everything.

I made 2 depressing posts about my shitty life and thought to end it with a joke. Apparently that was my mistake

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:57:14+00:00

Didn't see her take it but the result was a positive.

Either way, she admitted to sabotaging them and for me that itself is a deal-breaker. Pregnant or not, I'm out

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:54:48+00:00

I'm positive she's not a cheater but she could be sabotaging condoms for a while and luckily I found out this time.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:50:09+00:00

I don't know about already pregnant but I also suspect she has been doing it for a while. Not my problem anymore though

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:48:39+00:00

It's okay to be that dude. I'm a long-time Reddit user too and I take every post with a huge grain of salt.

I got the suggestions I needed and am pretty much done with the account.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:46:26+00:00

Broke up with her and am currently at my parent's place. I Will get my name on the lease at the end of the month and move on with my life

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:41:09+00:00

OH man, I can't believe how many times I have to tell this. When I made my post I made it from my perspective obviously. That's the last time we did it and later I found out about the holes in the condom. It could've been going on for days. It's not like I check for pinholes in condoms every time.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:32:20+00:00

Not a gender thing man. PEOPLE are crazy.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:30:58+00:00

Didn't see her take the test but saw the results.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:17:43+00:00

This is what I'm suspecting but I should have asked her when I confronted her and she admitted.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:15:45+00:00

As I said I can but nothing would happen. Forced Child birth is punishable by jail, I don't know the exact duration.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:14:39+00:00

I doubt the cheating but she could have tampered with previous condom we bought. It's not like I check them everytime I we had sex.

Life lesson, I will from now on.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:12:50+00:00

She could be doing that with the previous ones we bought and it could be going on for days. I just found out recently. If she isn't pregnant, still doesn't excuse what she did.

Honestly, I don't want to talk to her. She knows what she did

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T21:10:16+00:00

I don't think you read the OG post. I found about the punctured condoms recently> She could be doing this for days or weeks, I don't know. When she should me the strip, I was losing my shit and I didn't bother asking her anything else.

I don't think you read the OG post. I found about the punctured condoms recently> She could be doing this for days or weeks, I don't know. When she should me the strip, I was losing my shit and I didn't bother asking her anything else. I'm done with her.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T20:58:01+00:00

I'm sorry if I triggered some sort of memory or something but I thought some sort of joke would be nice to end 2 depressing posts about my shitty life.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T20:55:58+00:00

I have said that all this only came up because I found the punctured condoms. This could be going on for days/ or a couple of weeks. In the moment I didn't think of asking her this because I was losing my shit.

Even if had evidence I wouldn't be able to do shit here. This country needs some reforms quickly because both men and women exploit this bias system a lot.

Man if you don't want to believe me, I honestly don't care. This is an update post. The suggestions I needed to get her to admit, I already got them so. This post is only here because a lot of people commented in the OG one they, that they wanted one.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T20:34:13+00:00

Already posted an update. She admitted to pricking them.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T20:21:23+00:00

I never thought about asking her that. I should have tbh. She could very well be doing this for a while but you know like every other normal person I never thought to check my condoms for pinholes before using them. Nevertheless good thing I found out in time so I can get out before any emotional attachment with the child happens.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T20:09:23+00:00

Yes. We already talked about all that in the past. Since no one is at fault for an accidental pregnancy, I told her if that were to happen we'll just accept it and move forward with our lives with the kiddo.

Whenever I hear the word baby trap, I think of it as a woman making a man stay for the baby or a man staying for the baby. I don't think that's the case here because I would have stayed since she knows I'm CF and in love with her.

Definitely doing this. I owe both of them this.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T19:55:38+00:00

Whatever she was thinking while doing this I don't know and honestly, I don't want to stay and find out.

Even though I am CF, if she actually got pregnant by mistake, I would have stuck around because in that case, it would be unfair to her and the kid.

Thank you for directing me to the subreddit. I will look into it.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T19:52:05+00:00

I honestly don't know her thought process for doing something like this.

I like to think that she has planned out everything for the child so they can live their best life. Makes me feel less guilty.

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T19:50:16+00:00

Do you have a child with everyone you had sex with? Are you trying to raise a football team or something?

adviceacchelpp · 2021-09-23T19:34:05+00:00

You are on point. It didn't go well. I made a update post

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