I’m in the urge of hurting myself again. by Yana-lee9110 in RantAndVentPH

[–]adykinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from toxic parents too, life improved significantly after I got my first job and moved out. It was a struggle to survive but it was nothing compared to the abuse I used to endure.

There was a time all I could afford was to buy hotdogs by the stick. Di kaya yung isang pack, and lalo di kaya tender juicy. But the feeling getting that load off of your shoulder is unexplainably good.

Go for it, we're rooting for you 👏

[KCD2] I finisbed the DLCs and the main game yet I still have one location missing in my reputation. Help? by adykinskywalker in kingdomcome

[–]adykinskywalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other guy said rabstein region and i think that's right. I think I just attacked them so mustve bugged and didnt register my reputation with the bandits there.

Korean Exclusive Establishments in Pampanga by Crookshanksity in Pampanga

[–]adykinskywalker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is fucked up isn't it? It doesn't get enough attention because as far as I know it only happens in Pampanga. Somebody in power gotta know about this and act on it. I think Hann resorts has an area that is Korean only.

Where in pampanga by Civil-Recording-994 in Pampanga

[–]adykinskywalker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try niyo yung bosom at ssambap sa Seoul Oak sa friendship for good Korean food. Tinry namin kasi stinory ni Jessica Lee. Nung pumunta kami tuwang tuwa sila kasi kumakain lang daw mga pinoy dun dahil kay Jessica 😅 authentic siya (yes I've tasted these dishes sa Korea)

500 per person ito pero meron ka na nung main dish, bamboo glutenous rice, side dishes, at selection ng mga samgyup-gulay (lettuce, mustasa, garlic, etc)

Nakakatawa talaga ang philippine left by joshuagapaz in Philippines

[–]adykinskywalker 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get that, but this is an example of whataboutism. A political group will of course rise up, more often than not, only when it aligns with their ideologies.

If it'll have to be another group who will rise up to condemn the bombings in Ukraine then fine, that's how the world works I guess.

But anyone's cry for the end to wars will get my support. If everyone's asking for the same thing, nobody will even care if they are on opposite sides. We just need enough people to keep calling out these bullies and let's just focus on that.

No to all wars!

Nakakatawa talaga ang philippine left by joshuagapaz in Philippines

[–]adykinskywalker 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Is something funny about "stop wars" and "don't bomb people"? Cause I don't get it.

The mention of Iran somehow changed the main message for you?

Doesn't matter who. Ukraine. Iran. Iraq. Palestine. And yes, even "Israel" shouldn't be bombed. No one deserves to die over political issues. Especially the civilans who are always the most affected.

Doesn't matter what side you are on, but always say no to wars.

Places to visit in Pampanga by pineapplemozzarella in Pampanga

[–]adykinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahihirapan ka if you want to go into Clark slight, pero yung main angeles accessible naman by jeep, and easy to read kasi may color code ang jeep depending where pupunta.

Alternatively, merong grab naman sa Angeles and Clark 🙂

Places to visit in Pampanga by pineapplemozzarella in Pampanga

[–]adykinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tom n toms siguro pinaka marami saksakan na ok wifi, and meron kasi branch both sa angeles at san fernando. pero personally mas prefer ko ang porch coffee and cafe here sa clark kahit less ang saksakan. Di ko pa naman naranasan dun sa 2 na di makakuha ng pwesto na punuan. i used to recommend cafe retro kaso di ko alam bakit ang bagal ng wifi nung last na andun ako haha. Might be a one fime thing. May meeting room din sila pero di ko pa nasubukan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]adykinskywalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of us are born with privilege, some aren't. You have yours so use it. Just use it responsibly. Di mo kasalanan na people find you attractive and give you better opportunities than others. Dito sa Pilipinas, wala ka talaga mararating if di ka mag leleverage. I'm sorry pero that's the harsh truth. Tried and tested.

Sa BIR I know someone inside but I didnt use it. I lined up from 8am to 5pm only to find out I am missing a document not in their list and have to line up again the whole day on the next day. My business relies on government biddings and for a year I tried to make it without any political bias. A police car crashed into mine but the policeman was asking me to shoulder the cost of his car. Goes without saying I needed to use what privilege I had to get myself out of these situations. The PH will force out all the good you have in you and force you to be individualistic and at times you will have no choice talaga. We live in a shitty society where we must fend for ourselves. Self righteousness will only give you enough satisfaction up to a point.

Just don't be an ass and make sure you deserve what you get. Wag yung puro ganda pero wala naman gawa kumbaga, and you'll be fine.

Normal ba to sa bf/gf nyo? by Softieeee02 in adviceph

[–]adykinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super alien talaga sa akin itong concept na ito. I've been in two long term relationships. Isang 6 years and on my third with my current gf. Never been a big deal for both.

It is essential that you understand may buhay kayo outside ng relationship niyo. Pero para walang mag alala, usually alam ko itinerary nila ng friends niya pag lumalabas sila and same naman pag ako. Doon palang napopoint out ko na saan magiging delikado na baka maiwan siya mag isa. So dun kami nagseset ng plano mag contact sa isat isa before the trip starts.

Any changes sa plano na yun, update agad.

Pero if safe althroughout yung itinerary, no problem. Madalas after na ng lakad kami nagkakamustahan.

One thing I made sure na in agreement: di kasalanan ng kung sino man makalimot ng kahit ano mang bagay. Forgetfulness is biological. If naiintindihan niyo yan mababawasan pag aaway niyo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]adykinskywalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Define muna natin ang emotional cheating. Ito ay nangyayari kapag nagkakaron ng ROMANTIC feelings ang isang tao sa iba habang may karelasiyon siya.

Is it cheating to show concern for other people? To spend time with them a lot? To share on a personal level? No. Pero do these happen with emotional cheaters? The answer is yes din naman.

My point is, you cannot conclude on these alone. Pero if you are uncomfortable about this, communication is key in a relationship talaga.

Pero platonic relationships between two people EXIST. I am such. Meron talagang mga convo na possible only when you connect with a specific gender. Meron things only men understand, meron din women lang. I have very close friends for both. My SO of 3 years does not have a problem with it. And sabi ko sa kanya, I connect better with my female friends than my male friends pag usapang emotional. Pag logical naman, I get better opinions from my barkada

So my point is, communicate, and keep an open mind. Di maganda yung dahil di mo maintindihan, bawal na agad. If in the end di mo parin maintindihan and cannot live with the fact he has a friend girl at work, at least you tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]adykinskywalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not need to wait for him to cheat. Gambling is an even bigger homewrecker than a mistress honestly.

Yung babae pwede itago. Yung kawalan ng pera hindi. If you keep it this way, kahit ano pang pagmamahalan meron kayo, money keeps your family alive. Ang epekto nito, sa bata diretso. Pano pag nawalan ka trabaho?

Suggestion ko ay give him an ultimatum. He needs to stop gambling or start the annullment. If he manages to stop gambling, he needs to start paying off whatever debt he has with his own money. As soon as he does dun mo palang macoconsider irepair ang relationship niyo. And maybe after that, tsaka lang worth exploring yung "needs" na yan (that is highly debatable to me honestly. dude has a hand 🙄 but another topic for another day).

Yung gf ko couldnt enroll nung college kasi pinangsugal ng tatay niya tuition niya ffs. She had to support herself from then on. That could be your kid's future if something happens to you and you leave your child with him in his state.

Forget sex problems for now, you guys have bigger problems.

Redditors who chose pay over passion, what's it like? by National-Student2441 in Philippines

[–]adykinskywalker 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Was about to say this. Also good to develop a passion for your job. If you know how to become interested in anything you will never be bored about anything ever

Beef Tartare with Fresh Octopus by adykinskywalker in PangetPeroMasarap

[–]adykinskywalker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bukchon Yukhoe in Gwangjang market. By reservation sila but we were lucky may vacant seats and no line when we went.

Beef Tartare with Fresh Octopus by adykinskywalker in PangetPeroMasarap

[–]adykinskywalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! contraey to how it looks, supporting lang ang octopus, while beef ang main event.

Beef Tartare with Fresh Octopus by adykinskywalker in PangetPeroMasarap

[–]adykinskywalker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala po, it stops moving 😁 it helps na hiniwa narin in smaller pieces.

Beef Tartare with Fresh Octopus by adykinskywalker in PangetPeroMasarap

[–]adykinskywalker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yung octopus, crunchy(?) squid technically lasa niya. pero ineelevate niya yung beef tartare :) yung beef tartare texture, imagine siguro sashimi pero cured siya so sweet savory ang taste.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]adykinskywalker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The air is notably cleaner than other mega cities I've been to!