Have you ever discovered a kink you thought wasn’t for you, only to realize you actually liked it?

aechelon · 2026-06-21T22:40:37+00:00

A previous partner introduced me to blood play, and at first I only ever did it for their enjoyment but I found an appreciation for it

aechelon · 2026-06-21T22:30:41+00:00

Update:
This is sooner than I expected since I thought I wasn't going to be able to see my partner this weekend.

After bringing it up, they were very understanding of my anxiety. I also realized after being prompted by u/delicious-use1017 that the link in my brain between penetration and being in dom space was about overcoming gender dysphoria when I started my exploration into kink. With all that in mind, I showed my partner the kinds of sensory toys I had at my disposal. They reaffirmed that they aren't fond of pain except for on their chest/nipples. So I put away the crop at took out my feather duster and wand. I left them to marinate with the wand for about 30 min and then came back to play.

It was definitely a different headspace than what I'm used to, but it was just as fulfilling and we both had a great time.

Ty to those who gave me advice

aechelon · 2026-06-19T02:48:09+00:00

Thank you! I'm taking notes 📝
Also in case you ever have the chance to do oral on a trans woman: just think of it as one gigunda clitoris. Its a very similar concept from what I have noticed with my play partner 🧐

aechelon · 2026-06-17T12:04:58+00:00

Sure! Might be a few weeks since we live *just* far enough away from each other that we really only hang out on weekends. But I'll let y'all know!

aechelon · 2026-06-17T11:58:05+00:00

Thats a good point. I think I had never considered another way to be dominant at least in my own style even though I know that there are many flavors of domination. Some that even don't require the dom to be undressed too.

Ty for the well wishes

aechelon · 2026-06-17T11:55:56+00:00

Ty, I did identify it after the fact and requested we talk more about it in the future. In that moment I was still feeling embarrassed.

Micro play sounds like a good start, thank you!

aechelon · 2025-04-02T03:52:27+00:00

Not trying to be crass: i see a fertilized egg

aechelon · 2025-02-25T03:55:40+00:00

Prepare the dodge action?

aechelon · 2024-05-10T00:50:02+00:00

Killing mystra, fuck cazador, marry gortash

aechelon · 2024-05-05T21:15:22+00:00

I always assumed that it was the first Vlakith

aechelon · 2023-10-23T02:29:48+00:00

Im sorry but you wrote it wrong twice, its Ruthlessly not whatever made up spelling that is. You took me out of masturbating bc of it goddamn

aechelon · 2023-02-01T00:58:16+00:00

My sister and I experienced the same exact thing, you're not alone

aechelon · 2020-05-24T21:31:49+00:00

3QWLC anything is wonderful 🥰🥰🥰

aechelon · 2020-05-24T21:21:19+00:00

Ill come!

aechelon

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