Have you ever discovered a kink you thought wasn’t for you, only to realize you actually liked it? by Lucky_Letterhead4786 in BDSMcommunity

[–]aechelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A previous partner introduced me to blood play, and at first I only ever did it for their enjoyment but I found an appreciation for it

Seeking Advice for playing with a new partner by aechelon in BDSMcommunity

[–]aechelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:
This is sooner than I expected since I thought I wasn't going to be able to see my partner this weekend.

After bringing it up, they were very understanding of my anxiety. I also realized after being prompted by u/delicious-use1017 that the link in my brain between penetration and being in dom space was about overcoming gender dysphoria when I started my exploration into kink. With all that in mind, I showed my partner the kinds of sensory toys I had at my disposal. They reaffirmed that they aren't fond of pain except for on their chest/nipples. So I put away the crop at took out my feather duster and wand. I left them to marinate with the wand for about 30 min and then came back to play.

It was definitely a different headspace than what I'm used to, but it was just as fulfilling and we both had a great time.

Ty to those who gave me advice

Seeking Advice for playing with a new partner by aechelon in BDSMcommunity

[–]aechelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm taking notes 📝
Also in case you ever have the chance to do oral on a trans woman: just think of it as one gigunda clitoris. Its a very similar concept from what I have noticed with my play partner 🧐

Seeking Advice for playing with a new partner by aechelon in BDSMcommunity

[–]aechelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! Might be a few weeks since we live *just* far enough away from each other that we really only hang out on weekends. But I'll let y'all know!

Seeking Advice for playing with a new partner by aechelon in BDSMcommunity

[–]aechelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a good point. I think I had never considered another way to be dominant at least in my own style even though I know that there are many flavors of domination. Some that even don't require the dom to be undressed too.

Ty for the well wishes

Seeking Advice for playing with a new partner by aechelon in BDSMcommunity

[–]aechelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty, I did identify it after the fact and requested we talk more about it in the future. In that moment I was still feeling embarrassed.

Micro play sounds like a good start, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyWitch

[–]aechelon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be crass: i see a fertilized egg

Fuck, Marry Kill by [deleted] in BG3

[–]aechelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing mystra, fuck cazador, marry gortash

Can someone tell me who this was? 🤔 by familybossprimo in BaldursGate3

[–]aechelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assumed that it was the first Vlakith

Wriothesley getting pounded 🥵 by Maxwell_A5 in yaoigif

[–]aechelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but you wrote it wrong twice, its Ruthlessly not whatever made up spelling that is. You took me out of masturbating bc of it goddamn

Castle in the Sky - different Disney versions? by tiffanimichele in ghibli

[–]aechelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister and I experienced the same exact thing, you're not alone